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    Oct 3, 2008, 08:27 AM

    Oh My Gosh, whatever.

    Desperate housewife all you have to remember is that the key to a relationship is compromise. That means YOU have to give in a little as well. You can't just demand that your husband stop doing something just because it's caused a bit a change in your life. You're upset about something that you have no reason to be upset about. I agree that the husband should be more considerate of your feelings but, honestly, you need to be considerate as well.

    What's next? Are you going to tell him to stop masturbating all together because it cuts in on the 'you-me' time? Hell, he should stop using the computer all together because you want him to be around you often. If porn is such a big problem then you should ask him to ease up on it. Not to stop completely. And then you need to assess yourself and respect the fact that your husband wants some alone time with his computer. He's not choosing it over you anymore than he's choosing work over the kids. He's prioritizing. He can play with the kids after he's recovered from a hard days work. Just because he has a job doesn't make him love his kids any less. He can play with you 'after' he's recovered from his little one on one session. Just because he's discovered porn doesn't make him love you any less.

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