Two things bother me about this. No one has a "relationship" after 48 hours. No one can be made ready for a new relationship after a bad one after 48 hours. I'm actually more worried about this girl's intentions then yours. I wouldn't be surprised if she was pregnant and looking for a fall guy.
As for legal aspects of this the laws vary. In many places it would be illegal for you to have sex with her, in many places it wouldn't. But there is no place where it would be illegal for you to date her as long as sex wasn't involved.
The age gap between 16 and 19 is pretty wide but not insurmountable. You sound a little bit behind socially and she sounds way ahead.
So I'm going to say this. GO SLOW!! What you want to do is date her and see if a relationship develops. Do NOT have sex with her, especially if she initiates it. That would be another indication she's trying to trap you. If a relationship is going to develop it will develop over time, not after one date and not after 48 hours.
One last thing is don't sneak around. You say you went on one date already, did you meet somewhere or pick her up at her home? If you met some where, then the next date pick her up at her home. Show her parents that you are being up front in seeing her.
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