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    thegreatestviz Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
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    #21

    May 10, 2008, 07:00 AM
    Well
    Its definitely a lotsa reading up here...
    I cannot disagree with anyone
    Everybody has some good suggessions here.
    Well you are in college
    Its supposed to be the most enjoyable time of your life

    I would say after reading all this that basically you are stuck up
    Now you are the guy and are giving her space and time
    When was the last time she told you that I'm must be very hard for you to be with me like this?

    I mean you are just being there for her
    Weather she is ready or isn't
    No matter what you are trying to be there always for her

    You have two options now

    Either walk up to her and tell her.. if you want to be with me better be becoz I am tired of the same routines(of... you know) and we have made no progress and this will be best for us

    OR

    Wait for her to gain confidence in you
    Make her to trust you
    Wait for her to come back
    And when she does
    Don't just tell her but make her believe that
    You will never do anything to hurt her and want to be always with her forever
    Support her and help her get her morale & trust back for you(because it seems after all the Past its lotsa doubts in her mind)

    You have had a tough time already
    But I think you will do the latter

    Take care mate
    Viz
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    Ram911 Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    #22

    May 10, 2008, 12:00 PM
    The great : Yea, I like the second option. And it's essentially what I am currently doing. Going on 2 weeks of nc and her school will be ending this week so, we agreed on talking about it once school is over. I'm going to wait for her to contact me, and we'll see from there. I want to do everything you said in option 2. I want her to have confidence, morale, and trust in me.

    Thanks again for the advice.

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