I like her but does she like me?

monique_minx · Apr 5, 2008, 06:40 AM

Yer things like that just tend to work themselves out so as long as you don't push her she will end up coming to you. All good things come to those who wait, you may have to wait a while but trust me it's worth it in the end. You'll grow on her just as she has on you, she'll get to really like your company and most likely she'll end up wanting to be more than just friends with you simply because you are such a good friend!

blacksinz · Apr 5, 2008, 10:26 AM

Thanks for all the help everyone. But now I SMS her she don't reply feel like drifting apart with her. Do u all still think it will work out?

talaniman · Apr 5, 2008, 10:58 AM

I think you must respect her boundaries she has set, and back off her, as she DOES realize what you feel for her, but doesn't want what you want. So stop focusing all your attentions on her, and broaden your circle of friends, or you run the risk of not seeing the true value of others in your life, and causing a big imbalance that is not healthy, nor wanted. That would be a shame. Sorry, but its important to put things in there perspective, and accept your pushing her away as a friend. Back off.

Lynz456 · Apr 5, 2008, 08:32 PM

Well I'm in sort of a similar situation. Like one of my guy friends said he liked me and I sort of liked him. But now I just want to be friends.
You may just need to give her some time. If time doesn't work then friendship is the best. Being friends is better anyway. You will always be there for each other if you are friends rather than getting into a relationship and making things awkward or complicated.
In the end, things will end up the way they're supposed to be so don't fret too much :)

monique_minx · Apr 6, 2008, 12:10 AM

Yer don't get paranoid if she doesn't txt you back, she might not have credit or she could be busy. The most important thing is not to crowd her either, she needs space so slow it down a bit mate and you'll do fine.

blacksinz · Apr 6, 2008, 07:03 AM

Thanks all =) well got to agree if she end up not liking me the same way then I'll still be happy just being friends with her.

blacksinz · Apr 7, 2008, 06:13 AM

Well been a week I din SMS or look for her. Kind of sad when see her at school. Surrounded by guys. Maybe I should give up liking her. She's like 2 years older. Mayybe Im just not good enough. What do u think?

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