Hi. Well I hope some one can help me. Well I like this girl but she's 2 years older. Well I have been friend with her for nearly a year but for the first 5 monthes we never reli talked. About 4 monthes ago I started to talk to her a lot. Can say that we became good friends. But when I told her I like her she acts like I never said it at all. At first I start messaging her a lot. And when I din SMS her she would ask if everythings OK or did she do anything to make me angry. But lately I SMS her she's acts like she doesn't reli wan to talk to me. I know there was 1 guy she liked but he ended up hurting her. And now she has kind of a fear to like guys. Does she like me? I honestly like her a lot cause so far she's the only one I can talk to about everything. She's reli special to me. Please help.:(

Okay the only person that knows would be her, however, she is talking to you,, and is a friend to you. Perhaps, She may like you as a friend only. Enjoy the friendship that you have with her, and maybe it can blossom, but if you take your friendship to a new level it could ruin a friendship and make it uncomfortable for both parties, so enjoy having her as a friend, as someone to talk to because by her actions, it seems that is what she would prefer right now a friend.

Year I guess yours right. Thanks for the advice. I like her a lot but I also like being friends with her. She's jz reli amazing to me. Well if it makes her happy I'll always be her best friend. Thanks again :)

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hi. Well I hope some one can help me. Well I like this girl but she's 2 years older. Well i have been friend with her for nearly a year but for the first 5 monthes we never reli talked. About 4 monthes ago I started to talk to her alot. Can say that we became good friends. But when I told her I like her she acts like I never said it at all. At first I start messaging her alot. And when I din SMS her she would ask if everythings ok or did she do anything to make me angry. But lately I SMS her she's acts like she doesnt reli wan to talk to me. I know there was 1 guy she liked but he ended up hurting her. And now she has kinda a fear to like guys. Does she like me? I honestly like her alot cause so far shes the only one I can talk to about everything. She's reli special to me. Please help.:(

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blacksinz I agree with jolienoire she does need a friend right now try not to let her know your feelings right now it does suck but it will be worth it at the end when she notice that she's always had a great guy right by her side it will take a while good luck

Yeah your both rite. But now she's like ignoring me. I SMSed her to ask how was her exam. I waited for her reply but never got it. Sigh confused now...

If any of u were in her position. Do u think she might like me?

Well like Jolienoire said, she needs a friend now. Perhaps she hasn't gotten the text, for what ever reason(s). I'm currently in a tussle myself, At around Christmas time of last year I admitted to one of my best friends that I had feelings for her and that I would like to take our relationship to the next level, she said she felt the same. So we started dating, all went well for the first few weeks until my paranoia started to spark up. I started to feel like she was still in love with my best friend ( Who she liked prior to this, for about a year and a half =/) So I confronted her about it one day( after I couldn't handle my paranoia anymore) And she stated that she "Loves" me.. She just seems to want to pay more attention to him then she does to me, on most occasions they speak more then we do and often she walks right past me during school hours without even offering a simple gesture.( Whilst walking with him) I know the information I have given is slightly vague and I'm also sorry for hijacking your thread, this is just really bothering me. Any advice would be appreciated, or any thoughts would also be appreciated..

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. Any advice would be appreciated, or any thoughts would also be appreciated..

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Hey start your own thread, You will get more responses.. I will respond once you give your whole story in your own thread.. Thanks

Hey PsYcHoSiS. Well in my opinion if she reli does love u then just trust her. I've been there too. Trust me u don't want to get things mixed up. Maybe she has personal problems. Try talking it out with her at a café I something. Cause the last thing u need is to lose someone u reli care for. P/s:no prob lolz. Well both of us having love problems. Just chill k?

Do u think I should continue liking her or just start thinking of her as my friend? Honestly she's the only 1 I told nearly all
My secrets. Sigh

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Do u think I should continue liking her or just start thinking of her as my friend? Honestly she's the only 1 I told nearly all
my secrets. Sigh

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Keep her as a friend, she is everything you probably want in a girl therefore your attraction is becoming stronger you feel that she knows and understand you, but that's because you confide in her as a friend, it would have been a diff scenario if you told her from day one your true feelings, but you accepted the friendship try to keep it. In reality it's almost never a good Idea to date a friend.. it will never be the same.. Just enjoy your friendship, and be there for her..

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hi. Well I hope some one can help me. Well I like this girl but she's 2 years older. Well i have been friend with her for nearly a year but for the first 5 monthes we never reli talked. About 4 monthes ago I started to talk to her alot. Can say that we became good friends. But when I told her I like her she acts like I never said it at all. At first I start messaging her alot. And when I din SMS her she would ask if everythings ok or did she do anything to make me angry. But lately I SMS her she's acts like she doesnt reli wan to talk to me. I know there was 1 guy she liked but he ended up hurting her. And now she has kinda a fear to like guys. Does she like me? I honestly like her alot cause so far shes the only one I can talk to about everything. She's reli special to me. Please help.:(

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I know what that feels like, last year, I liked this guy, I called him weird boy, but he understood. I told him I liked him and he completely shut me out, I started talking to him again, but he acted like I never told him, then he shut me out of his life again. I still don't know if he liked me or not, but I just moved on. It worked out for me and I'm glad I did

K thanks but what should I do if she keeps avoiding me?

I think she probably does, she's probably just afraid because she doesen't want to get hurt again... Or maybe she needs a break from guys and just wants guy friends for now. The reason she acts like she doesen't want to talk about it is cause she thinks that if she shares something as strong as a relationship with you and someone else comes alone and she gets attracted then she'll hurt you and things won't be the same again. It's rare that something like that ever does heal over and when it does it's never done properly. Maybe she alread likes another guy and she just doesen't want to hurt you.. Maybe she just wants to have a friend to be with for now. And she also has to notice that she can't avoid the fact forever, and she'll need to face you sooner or later also. Keep trying to talk to her but she's going to have to figure out that she's hurting you by pushing you away when she does that. I don't know if that will work but I'd try it if I were you... I mean well what much else could you do?

Well you could try staying her friend for now and when she gets to know you even more and she knows you better she'll start to like that real you and then you'd prettymuch have it made. But that doesent always happen.

I got another problem now. I got 1 friend who is younger then me by 1 year. She told me she likes me. But I think I like her more like a friend. Wat should I do?

Your young friend seems to be in the same position as you are mate, you like the older girl? The young one likes you! Lol! I liked my best friend Bradin a while back, we were in grade 11 When I started liking him and then I decided after a whole year to tell him, he told me he didn't feel the same and just wanted me as a friend then a year after that he told me he liked me a lot and didn't want to tell me because he was afraid that I wouldn't like him back, he also said that he didn't want to tell me because he was going away for six months shortly after he told me, I knew this but we started going out anyway. So just give it some time, if you really do like her then things will work themselves out, just stay her friend for now.

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Your young friend seems to be in the same position as you are mate, you like the older girl? The young one likes you! Lol! I liked my best friend Bradin a while back, we were in grade 11 When I started liking him and then I decided after a whole year to tell him, he told me he didn't feel the same and just wanted me as a friend then a year after that he told me he liked me a lot and didn't want to tell me because he was afraid that I wouldn't like him back, he also said that he didn't want to tell me because he was going away for six months shortly after he told me, I knew this but we started going out anyway. So just give it some time, if you really do like her then things will work themselves out, just stay her friend for now.

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U reli think everything might work out fine?

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hi. Well I hope some one can help me. Well I like this girl but she's 2 years older. Well i have been friend with her for nearly a year but for the first 5 monthes we never reli talked. About 4 monthes ago I started to talk to her alot. Can say that we became good friends. But when I told her I like her she acts like I never said it at all. At first I start messaging her alot. And when I din SMS her she would ask if everythings ok or did she do anything to make me angry. But lately I SMS her she's acts like she doesnt reli wan to talk to me. I know there was 1 guy she liked but he ended up hurting her. And now she has kinda a fear to like guys. Does she like me? I honestly like her alot cause so far shes the only one I can talk to about everything. She's reli special to me. Please help.:(

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I think you should leave her alone for a while and in about 2 weeks start back as friends

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Originally Posted by blacksinz

hi. Well I hope some one can help me. Well I like this girl but she's 2 years older. Well i have been friend with her for nearly a year but for the first 5 monthes we never reli talked. About 4 monthes ago I started to talk to her alot. Can say that we became good friends. But when I told her I like her she acts like I never said it at all. At first I start messaging her alot. And when I din SMS her she would ask if everythings ok or did she do anything to make me angry. But lately I SMS her she's acts like she doesnt reli wan to talk to me. I know there was 1 guy she liked but he ended up hurting her. And now she has kinda a fear to like guys. Does she like me? I honestly like her alot cause so far shes the only one I can talk to about everything. She's reli special to me. Please help.:(

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I think you should leave her alone for a while and in about 2 weeks start back as friends