[Swagga]

I think I got the link right. I also had a guy friend who had a girlfriend and his girlfriend and I were friends as well. In my situation I was more friends with my guy friend. We didn't have sex but we fooled around. I was thrown off by the whole thing and left it alone. We spoke to each other every now and again he would check me out but I didn't want to have anything to do with it because it was wrong. He claimed to have found the Lord in the whole thing and apologized 2 years later ( I know stupid him). It was when I moved on he approached me and said that he told the girlfriend about what we did. She got really upset and it made me have to look over my shoulder. I chose to let it be because it was too much drama and if the girl paid attention to the times that I ignored or resisted him she probably would have realized that was stupid. She yelled at him for checking me out once as well. All I know is that I take responsibility, learn from it and move on.

Whenever the **** hits the fan, just be prepared and know how you're going to take responsibility for it. I just stopped friendships with both of them and found a different crowd to hang out with because it was too much confusion. It also turned out that my boyfriend knew the man and I told the truth. He never picked up on it but I told him to be upfront. Don't let this guy get to you because out of all of this he is the one not owning up to his part and not breaking it off because of his actions. If you ask me the man is a good friend but he sounds a little greedy when it comes to women. Don't pursue anything with him and keep it friends.


Hang In There,

Swagga