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    Dec 17, 2005, 04:00 PM
    I hope you do get them back. I went through the same thing. When I lived in sc my husbands parents came and kidnapped my children and brought them back to his son. We went and checked out the house where him and his girlfriend had been staying and they had left and taken everything with them. When the court day came they gave my husband temporary custody just because the children were living with him at the time. The only reason I have them now is because Defax finally got involved after the second report of his girlfriends son being molested by him. I was supposed to go to court in hopes of getting things finalized but the stupid ice storms happened and now it has to be rescheduled. Good luck to you.
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    Jan 3, 2006, 05:40 PM
    MaryAnn - your first problem is hanging with all these other guys. Why?? Do you need the freaking attention??

    Can't you be with one guy who loves you and who is there foryour son?? I don't get it?

    Can't you work on the one relationshiP?? And stop running to other guys??

    Obviously low self asteem.
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    Jan 4, 2006, 07:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by crankiebabie
    I hope you do get them back. I went through the same thing. When I lived in sc my husbands parents came and kidnapped my children and brought them back to his son. We went and checked out the house where him and his girlfriend had been staying and they had left and taken everything with them. when the court day came they gave my husband temporary custody just because the children were living with him at the time. The only reason I have them now is because Defax finally got involved after the second report of his girlfriends son being molested by him. I was supposed to go to court in hopes of getting things finalized but the stupid ice storms happened and now it has to be rescheduled. Good luck to you.
    First - Crankiebabie - I wish you all the best of luck and that the new year will be peaceful and happy!

    To MaryAnna - I've already stated my opinion about new partnerships, so I will enforce what crankiebabie stated here - you don't know these guys - and you should fully concentrate on your child. I was a single parent for many years, and when my daughter did not like someone, she had a reason - thank goodness nothing happened, but she just had that inner feeling and I listened to her. So if and when your child disapproves of someone, listen. Kids, as well as animals are a very good judge of people, not just brats who don't get their way and want to cause trouble. You need to really listen and weigh the 'vibes' and be there for the child, the man can take care of himself, and being alone for a while until you find the right one, is not the end of the world.


    Children are our main responsibility for as long as they are 'loaned' to us for nurturing and safe-keeping!
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    Jan 4, 2006, 07:45 AM
    Thank you very much chery. Maryanna just do what is best for you and the kids. The kids come first always.
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    Jan 4, 2006, 09:03 AM
    Cherry is SO right here. For some reason Kids REALLY do have this inner radar on judging people. Better than adults.

    I know this guy you were living with is a good guy because he posts here. You just piss all over him - no idea why he still cares.
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    Jan 4, 2006, 09:44 AM
    Hi Wildcat..
    Quote Originally Posted by Wildcat21
    Cherry is SO right here. For some reason Kids REALLY do have this inner radar on judging people. Better than adults.

    I know this guy you were living with is a good guy because he posts here. You just piss all over him - no idea why he still cares.
    Thanks, kids do have good radar.
    Regarding the fellow, he's better off without her at this point since perpetual liars need individual therapy to come back to the 'real world' and not couple counseling. Until she changes, no matter what man she gets involved with, will not benefit from the relationship - only get more frustration which they don't deserve either. She needs to get to the root of her reason for escaping reality first, and I hope sincerely that she makes it.
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    Mar 21, 2007, 10:30 AM
    Learn how to spell that would be the first step of what to do with your life
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    Mar 21, 2007, 10:43 AM
    How about checking some dates
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    May 4, 2007, 07:54 AM
    Unfortunately there are some guys that will just not forgive lying. If he is that type, then there is probably nothing that you can do. Just wait it out and have patience. If he loves you he will want to work it out..
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    May 4, 2007, 07:55 AM
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