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    Oct 25, 2007, 08:14 PM
    Great news! That's a huge step and I hope you made sure he doesn't regret it later! ;) I think that open communication is the key. I hope you get your vacation as planned. I truly feel optimistic!

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    Oct 26, 2007, 05:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rejectedagain
    Update! He backed out of the buddy trip at the last minute! He says he finally saw the hurt he was causing our family and does not resent me for it.
    So glad for you. May I suggest that a nice romantic candlelight dinner at home might be a good reward for something he gave up..

    That might show him that you're hurt, but willing to forgive him for his stupidity. You know those 'pals' might give him a hard time about this, but if he's happy at home, it might not matter as much to him as it did before.

    Rewards for things we do out of love are still appreciated.

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