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Homegirl 50 · Oct 3, 2007, 06:13 AM

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

it might not be healty but life is too short and i do whatever makes me happy. i think being happy is what everyone wants and thats what we live for right?
okay first of all love has no age you can't help loving someone and it dosn't matter how old you are. and i'm not afraid of being hurt because i've been hurt to many times my tears have dried up. so all i have is hope...........................

So you see nothing wrong with cheating and breaking up someone else' relationship? If that guy cared about you, he would not be with someone else. If he cared about you while you were with that other guy, he would have been helping you leave instead of helping you cheat.
I'm glad you are out of that abusive relationship, but you are now abusing someone else's relationship. Think about it.

Homegirl 50 · Oct 3, 2007, 06:23 AM

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

well everyone thanks everyone for being so kind and helping me out!!

I think you are a bit misguided. You are now with a guy that does not physically abuse you, but that does not mean he loves you or that you should be with him.
It is not good to cheat and the fact that this guy seems to have no problem cheating tells me he is not a very nice person. If he cheats with you he will cheat on you.
I am so glad that you have gotten out of that abusive situation, but don't waste your time with this guy. Don't waste you time with any guy who has no problem sharing you or having you share him. This guy is bad news and this relationship has way too much drama.

bignaked101 · Oct 3, 2007, 12:12 PM

“I think one's feelings waste themselves in words; they ought all to be distilled into actions which bring results.” - Florence Nightingale

J_9 I think your signature has a lot to do with what "kitty" is doing...

farfrmnormal · Oct 3, 2007, 12:20 PM

OK - I am confused - who is she with now? The one that beat her or Levi?

bignaked101 · Oct 3, 2007, 12:23 PM

SHE is with no one, I think, I am not sure... I think "Levi" has a girlfriend now, and she is in "love" with this Levi guy, and HE is cheating on his girl with her, and now, a weight is being pushed down on kitty like maybe Levi had felt with her.. but the most important thing is that she's happy!

Sorry had to throw that last part in there...

Homegirl 50 · Oct 3, 2007, 12:24 PM

She is with Levi, but Levi is with someone else and is cheating with her. She wants to now break up his relationship with the other girl so he will be with her.

farfrmnormal · Oct 3, 2007, 12:24 PM

OK - I get it now.

bignaked101 · Oct 3, 2007, 12:25 PM

No she's single...

And should stay that way until she grows up..

chuff · Oct 3, 2007, 12:27 PM

Actually I thought Levi was dating this other girl that was with her ex?

J_9 · Oct 3, 2007, 12:34 PM

Okay, this is how I understand it. She cheated on her ex (the abuser) with Levi... Then she broke up with both...

Levi now has a live in girlfriend and she is breaking that relationship cause she's now back with Levi, going to hotels etc.

But remember she is 19, she is happy, she is happy to be a heartbreaker.

One of these days though, all that happiness will come crashing down around her ankles.

bignaked101 · Oct 3, 2007, 12:35 PM

Levi is dating a totally different girl, I thought, I may not know, but here's a GOOD THOUGHT!

OK, so I think her and Levi should get together, because they will probably end up cheating on each other, or either becoming swingers, and the girl that Levi is with should go and find a GOOD MAN that will take care of her and cherish their relationship...

farfrmnormal · Oct 3, 2007, 12:55 PM

^^ Ya. She should come on here and read this post.

kittykatmeli · Oct 3, 2007, 02:15 PM

THANKS HOME GIRL 50 for your kind advise.

kittykatmeli · Oct 3, 2007, 02:37 PM

Fist of all I am grown up! I work as a dental assisant, while attending school, and have my own place. And like I said love has no age. And just because I'm in this situation doesn't mean I'm being childish because so many "grown ups" are in the same place as me. This is not me being childish but maybe you can call me a selfish b****. And why can't you be nice about it and such not s. what has your spouse cheated on you and left you for the other girl?

J_9 · Oct 3, 2007, 02:55 PM

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

fist of all i am grown up!

You may be "all grown up," but you are very immature.

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

i work as a dental assisant, while attending school, and have my own place.

And your point? You can still be immature and have all those things.

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

love has no age.

But true love shows maturity. You don't.

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

so many "grown ups" are in the same place as me.

That doesn't make it right. They are just as immature, irresponsible, and as selfish as you.

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

why can't you be nice about it

Why can't I be nice about it? Because it was a lowlife like you who took my ex husband away from me and innocence away from my children. Do you even realize the damage you are causing? No, of course you don't.

I know, I know, he isn't married, he doesn't have children. IT DOESN'T MATTER!! HE IS COMMITTED AND LIVING WITH THE WOMAN FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.

You are a homewrecker, plain and simple. One day you will realize that when your life comes crashing down on you. You can't see it now. You are only 19, you're a freaking baby just out there to have fun. Wait till you hit REAL LIFE!!

Homegirl 50 · Oct 3, 2007, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

THANKS HOME GIRL 50 for your kind advise.

You're welcome. I hope you take it to heart and find someone who will be with only you, treat you like a lady and make you happy.

kittykatmeli · Oct 3, 2007, 04:21 PM

I am thanks a lot! I know what I'm doing is wrong! But I guess I'm going to let them be! But still countinue to be he's friend but that's it and I'll have NO sex with him.

kittykatmeli · Oct 3, 2007, 04:25 PM

Sorry to hear your sad story J_9
Don't blame the other girl, but your husband!
Or maybe it was you!! Or maybe it was meant to be things happen for a reason right? maybe you were suppose to be with someone else. Just maybe you'll find someone to like you. So that you can't stop being such a meanie!!

J_9 · Oct 3, 2007, 04:35 PM

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

sorry to hear your sad story J_9
dont blame the other girl, but your husband!
or maybe it was you!!!! or maybe it was meant to be things happen for a reason right?.maybe you were supose to be with someone else. just maybe you'll find someone to like you. so that you can't stop being such a meanie!!!!!!

My story isn't sad. What is sad is the viscious woman who took my husband.

Maybe it was me? LMFAO!!

I was a very faithful wife and mother. It was a manipulative woman like you who took my ex away from me. Although I am better now for it as I see how he lives 16 years later and I would never stoop that low in my life.

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

just maybe you'll find someone to like you.

Found him 15 years ago and have 2 beautiful children by him. He would never stoop as low as Levi!!

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

so that you can't stop being such a meanie!!!!!!

Are you 19 or 9? Your language shows your childishness.

Homegirl 50 · Oct 3, 2007, 04:38 PM

Originally Posted by kittykatmeli

i am thanks alot! i know wut i'm doing is wrong! but i guess i'm going to let them be! but still countinue to be hes friend but thats it and i'll have NO sex with him.

Good girl. You just hang in there. Someone very good is going to come along and you don't want to be tied down with some "guy and his girl friend drama"
Give yourself time to heal from all you have gone through, then you will be ready for a healthy relationship. I wish you well