[Chery]

The dilema here is that if he came back to me i still can do nothing. Which can explain why he needs to move over and ignore me .He doesn't want to waste time spining around the same problem. what do you think, is my analysis strange?

This is actually what has happened. You were not ready to give up the teachings of your family - therefore I don't think you were willing to give it all up for him.

After his two attempts of 'emancipating' himself from his family's teachings, he gave up and will live his live accordingly.

I sincerely hope you find someone who your family approves of and that you will get your share of love and happiness.

And your memories will be what you make of them. We have no control over anyone else's memories, so don't worry about him.

[peace_seeker]

This is actually what has happened. You were not ready to give up the teachings of your family - therefore I don't think you were willing to give it all up for him.

After his two attempts of 'emancipating' himself from his family's teachings, he gave up and will live his live accordingly.

I sincerely hope you find someone who your family approves of and that you will get your share of love and happiness.

And your memories will be what you make of them. We have no control over anyone else's memories, so don't worry about him.

Thanks a lot, sure it is very hard to forget the memories. It is really hard

[yathink103]

People are quick to say I love you. Half the time it means I want you and people are confusing love with sex.