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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No, no, no!!!!!! That's not his job. That's YOUR job. YOU have to find ways to feel good about who you are.

    Where does your insecurity come from?
    Yeah it is my job but I feel insecure from things that have happened in past with him and being cheated on in relationships
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    My bf is flirty and it makes me feel crappy about myself because I feel that he makes time to help other girls but he doesn't even have time to go to the store with me to help pick out a pair of work shoes FOR HIM. I have no evidence that he is doing anything with these girls but the way he talks to them I keep my eyes and ears open. I kid him some about 'the other women' but I don't accuse him. Waiting for the moment he slips up.
    Your stronger than I am I can't keep it in
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:45 PM
    Guys have a way of saying do not compare me with other guys. Same goes with other girls he can not treat you like you are going to cheat on him due to his past experiences. AND you can not try to live up to 'above and beyond' for him to overcome any worries he may have about you treating him the same.
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    How old are the children? Are any of them of school age?

    He may not know if someone dropped it in the car or he picked up a piece of trash and didn't think about it.
    Yeah you may be right I hope so I love him to bits although been rocky lately , yes two are school age whys that?
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Guys have a way of saying do not compare me with other guys. Same goes with other girls he can not treat you like you are going to cheat on him due to his past experiences. AND you can not try to live up to 'above and beyond' for him to overcome any worries he may have about you treating him the same.
    Thank all you guys for your help much appreciated I need to get some sleep now but be on in the morning x
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:50 PM
    Could they have written the note. Kids are more in the know in that area nowadays than you would think or want them to be.
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    could they have written the note. Kids are more in the know in that area nowadays than you would think or want them to be.
    No definitely not and his got a work car so they generally go in mine plus it's his writing
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:53 PM
    And the writing on the other side of the paper?
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    and the writing on the other side of the paper?
    Pretty sure it's his writing
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    Sep 8, 2013, 04:59 PM
    If he wrote both sides it seems like maybe he wants to get you jealous or he wants to see if you are looking in certain places for whatever?
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    Sep 9, 2013, 12:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    if he wrote both sides it seems like maybe he wants to get you jealous or he wants to see if you are looking in certain places for whatever?
    I would like to think your right but I rarely go in his car and he knows how much hassle it would cause
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