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dsmhero1280 · Mar 19, 2009, 08:08 PM

Let her come to you bro... you have been doing good so far... if she wants to come back then she will...

dsmhero1280 · Mar 19, 2009, 08:09 PM

Don't think of it as her coming back because you might give yourself false hope

Just play it cool and let her know that you still have feelings

dsmhero1280 · Mar 19, 2009, 08:11 PM

I'm in the no contact state of my situation and it sux.. I really love and miss her but the last time we talked I told her exactly how I felt and haven't called her since... hopefully she will call me and if not then its probably best this way... for her... and I have no choice but to accept it..

talaniman · Mar 20, 2009, 08:06 PM

You don't have to keep posting the same question over, just give us feedback on one thread as its really confusing keeping all your questions straight.

talaniman · Mar 20, 2009, 08:11 PM

so now basically were back to being friends but what I'm wondering is is this a sign that she maybe still might want to be together or are we just going to stay friends now?

Sorry, sounds like that's all she wants, friends without the romance.

what should I do in each situation because I really love this girl and I want to be with her again?

You need time, and space, to put this into perspective, and you cannot be friends while you want more.

That's a recipe for disaster, hurt feelings, misunderstanding, and misery, and pain.

Monty36 · Mar 21, 2009, 03:49 PM

Threads merged yet again.

We were best friends for three years then dated for five months. As of right now were broken up but still "friends" but I think she might be showing signs she's still interested in a future relationship. 1. After two weeks of no contact she finally spoke to me saying how she misses us talking. 2. we've started talking like were friends again (She's not friends with any of her other ex's) 3. She out of the blue at four in the morning text me thanking me for always being there for her when she needs me 4. I saw her the other night and she told me how she's missed seeing me and when I saw her she acted like nothing bad (the breakup) ever happened between us. Do these seem like signs that she's still interested to anyone else? What do you guys think?

neverme · Mar 21, 2009, 03:52 PM

No I don't, I think she's treating you like a friend because that's what you have said you wanted to be.

If she wanted to be back with you she'd say so, until she does this I would assume, for your heart and head, that she doesn't and that she just wants to be friends.

I would just like to say that if you still have these feelings though, you are not ready to be friends and that you are only messing with your own head by being around her.

Monty36 · Mar 21, 2009, 04:34 PM

Hey two more thing I left out about my "signs" is that when we broke up she said that she "wants to go back to being friends for now, but that doesn't mean forever" I know that probably doesn't mean much but she is also still wearing the promise ring that I gave her?

neverme · Mar 21, 2009, 05:33 PM

Yeah, I think you should hang your hopes on the whims of a woman that may or may not come back to you.

Come on!! You need to stop looking at her hand or her face or anything else, to say the VERY least you are still emotionally invested in this girl and because of this you need to go NC (No Contact) OR you can continue to see her and prolong your own pain, your choice.

Oracle10 · Mar 21, 2009, 10:00 PM

As others have said, give her space. This doesn't mean avoiding her, but it does mean not pressuring her. As a girl who has asked for space on a few occasions, this is what I'd want.

Hang out if he wants to hang out, but don't bring up relationship stuff. Take her to the movies or someplace where she can relax and enjoy the moment. Keep your communication to her casual so she feels like you're still looking out for her, but not pressuring her. Follow that until she makes a decision. It's tough waiting it out. If you really love her, she's worth waiting for.