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Aug 1, 2008, 12:11 PM
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Thank you guys for the well wishes! And the congrats! Had I not had my friends on this site, I know I would have freaked and called her phone non stop but having you guys to vent to is a HUGE blessing... I wanted to give rep but I must spread it first for all you guys... Weird ha ha
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Aug 1, 2008, 12:17 PM
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Yeah when guys freak out like that by constantly calling over an issue rather than working through it that is usually a 'mental or temper problem' red flag to me so I'm glad you handled it sensibly cause I have had a feeling that you have found your match from everything you have been saying here.
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Aug 1, 2008, 12:22 PM
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A success story. Way to go bud and just remember you don't have to make up for her past history. You are your own man. You are a good guy. She has to realize that. You don't have to prove it.
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Aug 1, 2008, 12:27 PM
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Exactly, I can't erase what has been done to her already but I can show her that good guys do exist. I told her she needs to stop thinking just because a relationship is going really good and not arguing, it doesn't mean it's going to fall apart. It may just be a healthy relationship lol..
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Aug 1, 2008, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Romefalls19
Thanks for all the advice guys! She finally got to clear her head and came to her senses nd realized that I deserve to be trusted and that I never have given her a reason to not to believe me.
I do have to thank EVERYONE on this forum for EVERYTHING you guys have taught me. I could very well have been calling, texting, messaging frantically and made her even more angry but through the information I have learned from you guys. I let her cool down and realize what she was actually getting angry over and it worked out.
I'm happy things are working out for you rome... it's so crazy to think before coming here me and a lot of people I'm sure have as their initial gut reaction to call/text/contact your ex as much as possible... but once you come here, the people just talk some sense into you and you realize that's the exact opposite of what u should be doing
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Aug 1, 2008, 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by pwtnu4
i'm happy things are working out for you rome...it's so crazy to think before coming here me and a lot of people i'm sure have as their initial gut reaction to call/text/contact your ex as much as possible...but once you come here, the people just talk some sense into you and you realize that's the exact opposite of what u should do
Exactly, once you start giving advice to other people on the site.. You know you have your friends(yes, they become really good friends) on here and you just post what's going on and they will steer you from the edge and also gives you a chance to vent to us rather than to your S/O
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Aug 1, 2008, 01:29 PM
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Glad you had the patience to let the emotional dust settle, and were you paying attention to the way she jumped to conclusions and reacted? Not to say its bad, just realize that she can be quickly impulsive, which means you have to be a bit more patient. You handled it well though.
You aren't the same person you came here as. Thumbs up.
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Aug 1, 2008, 01:36 PM
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Rome that sounds childish.. you seem so descriptive and apt from your posts.. try that to convince her... n if she still doesn't... then?
Then I would advise, give her some time to get over it.. this shouldn't become any reason for a split.. that would be ludicrous! N meanwhile while you both recuperate.. catch your cousin and you know what to do with him!lol! All the best mate.. post back.
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Aug 1, 2008, 02:13 PM
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... sorry snowalps, you should have read the previous posts..
Situation averted. It's now a code blue. Things are worked out.
Sorry I missed this whole thing rome, but I'm glad things worked out.
... so I guess... no cousin buying rounds tonight?
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Aug 1, 2008, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny
N0help4u agrees: Don't even suggest lap dance to celebrate ! :D
::looks around the room::
Are you in my apartment n0help?
... because, I was just typing a post that said, "take your buds out...two words. lap...dance~"
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Aug 1, 2008, 02:23 PM
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Chalk it up to mom's intuition Isneeze!!
Hmmm I have to ask what's that... oh NO I'm out of here :D
N0 more looking over your shoulder Isneeze!
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Aug 1, 2008, 02:31 PM
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Uh... heh. ::nervous chuckle::
That's... for... uh.. school. You know. Art class. Doing the um... real life photog design of... downtown. You know. It's called "ladies of the streets". Um... no, she's supposed to be posed like that.. . really.
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Aug 1, 2008, 02:39 PM
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... Mom is REALLY not with it... thought you were watching Girls Gone Wild!
What they teach in school nowadays!! :eek:
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Aug 1, 2008, 02:43 PM
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Oh no, those two girls are making out because... you know, it's art. Yeah. If it's in black and white, it's art.
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