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    wolfdragonbabe Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 20, 2014, 11:32 PM
    Does he truly love me?
    When my boyfriend and I started being in a relationship( for a month) I met his mother and he introduced me as her future daughter in law and still refers to me as her future daughter in law when I go to her house with him. Is he truly in love with me or just saying that or irritate his mother? Fyi we are an interratical couple.
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    Apr 20, 2014, 11:58 PM
    There is no way for us to know that as we don't know him, you, or the way in which he is saying this to her. How about you consider how he actually treats you overall? Does he treat you like garbage or like someone he actually cares for? You would be a better judge of this than anyone online.
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    Apr 23, 2014, 07:31 AM
    How long have you been together so far in total? How old are you? How does he treat you? Why do you doubt his sincerity? How does his mom treat you?

    More info please as how can we read his mind and heart with such a vague question?
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    Apr 23, 2014, 08:08 AM
    You say you've been together for a "MONTH"... if that's the case... its impossible to be in love... at that point you both might be infatuated with each other... but that's not love... and its certainly not true love.

    YOU HAVE to be together long enough for lust and infatuation to wear off (they always do) to see if love has actually grown in that time. We are talking several years (ballpark of three most cases), not months.
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    Apr 23, 2014, 08:10 AM
    After one month I doubt that he can truly love you because he doesn't know you yet. I have always proceeded with caution when someone professes love after a short period. That usually tells me they are a very needy person and needy isn't attractive.
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    Apr 23, 2014, 08:27 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Oliver2011 View Post
    After one month I doubt that he can truly love you because he doesn't know you yet. I have always proceeded with caution when someone professes love after a short period. That usually tells me they are a very needy person and needy isn't attractive.
    That and it shows they really don't have a clue what love really is to toss it around so casually and quickly.

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