[Nab28]

Hi wondergirl.:) Specifically for you.

I'm in a long distance relationship. We met over summer last year, meaning I do not really know him. We barely talk. I'm friends with his closest friend so I know a bit about him.

I'm confused though. I did mention to him about how we communicate little, he tires to change for some time then gets back to his old self. He says he doesn't like chatting. He doesn't call either.. :/. I did tell him in a simple text sometime that "i can't do this anymore" blah blah ending it. He just says okay.

Comes back messaging me the next day like normal and nothing happened. His close friend I know says that's how he is as a person and I should be patient blah blah. I just need your advice please. Thank you. Sorry for the long essay.

[talaniman]

You ended it so tell him you don't want any contact either. Stick to your guns.

[Wondergirl]

1. a long distance relationship.
2. I do not really know him.
3. We barely talk.
4. I'm confused
5. we communicate little
6. He says he doesn't like chatting.
7. he doesn't call either
8. "i can't do this anymore"
9. He just says okay.
10. He messages the next day like nothing happened.

Read the above. Do you really need my advice?

[Homegirl 50]

He is not and is not going to be what you want, so leave him alone.

[Nab28]

All right ima surely do that. Cause he clearly isn't putting any effort.. and yes it is my fault I did rush things. Thanks.. I currently do not have a phone atm. Sold mine off via eBay.. lol till I buy another.. or should I just send him an email instead?:

[Nab28]

1. a long distance relationship.
2. I do not really know him.
3. We barely talk.
4. I'm confused
5. we communicate little
6. He says he doesn't like chatting.
7. he doesn't call either
8. "i can't do this anymore"
9. He just says okay.
10. He messages the next day like nothing happened.

Read the above. Do you really need my advice?

LOL well yes I do.. :D. but I guess I have figured out what to do already..

[Nab28]

He is not and is not going to be what you want, so leave him alone.

We not talking simply means I have left him alone. I do not bother messaging him meaning I have clearer left him alone...

[Wondergirl]

or should I just send him an email instead?:

No Contact. At all. None. No apologies. No explanations. No answering back. NO CONTACT.

[talaniman]

You don't have to do anything but delete any future contact or send it to spam. Why repeat yourself?

[Nab28]

No Contact. At all. None. No apologies. No explanations. No answering back. NO CONTACT.

Okay getting advice from you makes life a lot easier…:D.

[Nab28]

You don't have to do anything but delete any future contact or send it to spam. Why repeat yourself?

Thank you. There's no reason to repeat myself.:)

[Wondergirl]

Now, please tell us -- what is your plan?

[Homegirl 50]

We not talking simply means I have left him alone. I do not bother messaging him meaning I have clearer left him alone...

If you have clearly left him alone, what's with the question? You do nothing. Be done completely.