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imperfect_me · Jul 31, 2013, 01:56 PM

Hello every one! I seriously am lost! Need help.

In my household and religion and stuff, its not seen as good if a girl and a boy talk or meet. Hell relationships has no chance! But the problem is I fell in love, so I couldn't help it, and many people did not liked it when they heard about me! My parents got really blamed for letting me get involved in this, but I talked to them that I had maintained my distance, I knew what was right what was wrong!

But the people here thinks I'm kind of a whore or slut! Girls always involved with boys and no care about parents and stuff. I'm really depressed cause I'm not like that at all. Hell I'm still a virgin! I wouldn't dream of letting my parents down, but some how they don't even trust me now!

I badly need their support. Only my friends are with me, and no one else as they all think I'm cheap and all that
WHICH I SWEAR I'M NOT! What do I do?

J_9 · Jul 31, 2013, 02:00 PM

How old are you?

imperfect_me · Jul 31, 2013, 02:08 PM

Uh! 16

talaniman · Jul 31, 2013, 02:26 PM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ed-751523.html

Same guy? Doesn't matter. Your problem is a common one within your culture. Parents always try to keep you in proper behavior with name calling and threats so don't expect it to stop.

How do your friends handle this situation with their boyfriends?

I thought you were 17?? What happened?

imperfect_me · Jul 31, 2013, 02:29 PM

UH! Them not what you think the 17 one was kind of my friend! I am not so into relations!

Nope my parents are kind of different very strict with rules! I some times hate it

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2013, 02:36 PM

Christians have their church morals, which Im not putting down. But as such they have a tendency to judge and condemn on appearance. Really by doing so they are going by their standards and using the Bible. You sound like you have your head on straight and know right from wrong. Im not saying to not obey your parents but to not let this get to you. Hopefully you can get them to see your caring for this guy doesn't mean your going to go to bed with him. Get them to realize your morals and standards are higher than that. And that you are strong and not easily swayed by peer pressure

talaniman · Jul 31, 2013, 02:38 PM

Of course you do, most kids hate obeying the rules, but you should. How do your friends handle this?

Just to be clear its against the rules for two people to use the same account AND username.

imperfect_me · Jul 31, 2013, 02:46 PM

But what to do people have started to avoid me they keep whispering when I'm around and walk away when I'm near!
Do I blame him for making this happen! As he was the in secure one in the relation
p.s we are'nt using the same account my friend was in trouble and I told her about my account and this site so she wanted to try and get help

My friends do not judge me,they perfectly well believe I have'nt done any thing wrong! They are totally supporting me.but I'm afraid what if they get tired and leave me!

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2013, 02:54 PM

If they are your friends they will see that these people are narrow minded and they will stick by you. As far as your oarents they are only concerned about you and your reputation. If your guy friends can't handle all this commotion he might give up on you anyway.

Wondergirl · Jul 31, 2013, 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by imperfect_me

p.s we are'nt using the same account my friend was in trouble and i told her about my account and this site so she wanted to try and get help

Why do you both have the same screen name?

Using the word "hell" as a swear word is okay?

imperfect_me · Aug 1, 2013, 02:29 AM

So.. what do I do??