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    May 28, 2013, 06:02 PM
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    Its been two months I haven't gotten my period I am a regular and I have cramps when I wake up but I don't have any other symptoms am I pregnant? I'm too young to have kid help me. I don't know what to do I don't want to dissapoint my mother or family.:((
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    May 28, 2013, 06:20 PM
    Did you have sex? If so, have you taken a pregnancy test?
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    May 28, 2013, 06:38 PM
    You should go hospital first and find out if you are pregnancy.
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    May 28, 2013, 07:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Did you have sex? If so, have you taken a pregnancy test?

    Well the thing is me and my partner didn't necessarily do it all the way and he didn't c u m in me I had to stop him because I was scared I wasn't ready and now I feel like I'm pregnant because I wake up with cramps and my period just doesn't come. I'm a good kid I swear I just did a mistake.Reply
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    May 28, 2013, 07:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lande View Post
    you should go hospital first and find out if you are pregnacy.
    Problem is I don't want to dissapoint anyone but I know abortion is so wrong I'm against I feel like I might have ruined my life. I know that if I am not pregnant I learned my lesson of protection if I ever decide to have sex sex /:
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    May 28, 2013, 07:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by younggal1111 View Post
    Well the thing is me and my partner didnt necessarily do it all the way and he didn't c u m in me
    You might want to add it to your list of things to know that "pulling out" too often = pregnancy. He doesn't have to ejaculate to be producing and depositing semen inside you. Wait until you miss a period and then wait another two weeks before taking a pregnancy test with first urine of the morning.
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    May 28, 2013, 07:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Did you have sex? If so, have you taken a pregnancy test?
    No I haven't taken the test I know I'm stupid I'm so scared to be positive I know I should but I'm scared to get the test
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    May 28, 2013, 07:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You might want to add it to your list of things to know that "pulling out" too often = pregnancy. He doesn't have to ejaculate to
    be producing and depositing semen inside you. Wait until you miss a period and then wait another two weeks before taking a pregnancy test with first urine of the morning.

    I'm sorry for being so naïve I want to just cry no one is here for me but what if iits been two months will the test be accurate
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    May 28, 2013, 07:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by younggal1111 View Post
    I'm sorry for being so naive I want to just cry no one is here for me but what if iits been two months will the test be accurate
    Probably, if you do it correctly. Or go to a doctor's office or walk-in clinic for a blood test. You can also get counseling at places like Planned Parenthood and other clinics.

    How old are you?
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    May 28, 2013, 07:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Probably, if you do it correctly. Or go to a doctor's office or walk-in clinic for a blood test. You can also get counseling at places like Planned Parenthood and other clinics.

    How old are you?

    I'm 17 years old ma'am.
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    May 28, 2013, 08:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by younggal1111 View Post
    no I haven't taken the test I know I'm stupid I'm so scared to be positive I know I should but I'm scared to get the test
    I know you're scared, but you need to find out if you are pregnant. Do you have a Planned Parenthood in your area, as mentioned above?
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    May 29, 2013, 03:30 AM
    I hate to rub this in, but you should have thought of this before you took the risk to have sex. And I see you haven't learned the lesson fully.

    Quote Originally Posted by younggal1111 View Post
    I learned my lesson of protection if I ever decide to have sex sex /:
    You haven't learned not to have sexual intercourse, just to use protection. But no form of birth control is 100% effective. So anytime you have penile insertion you risk pregnancy.

    Quote Originally Posted by younggal1111 View Post
    but what if iits been two months will the test be accurate
    Since your period is over a month past due, any home pregnancy test should be accurate if you take it according the instructions (use first morning urine).

    But you do need to take one ASAP. If you are pregnant, then you need to start getting care for the fetus. If you aren't pregnant, then there may be some other medical issue preventing your period that you need to see a doctor about.

    Finally, I understand if you feel abortion is wrong. But there ia another alternative. Adoption will allow you to get on with your life without the burden of a child to raise.

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