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    MaaadMaxine Posts: 45, Reputation: 0
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:09 AM
    Any thing you'd like to say?
    Yesterday my mom said that today I can be ungrounded from my phone,Facebook,social sites... basically everything on the internet I was blocked from... Is what I'm now ungrounded from. Which is pretty much just social sites. Because that's ALL I normally do. ANYWAY! I asked her if I am ungrounded from hanging out with my friends?She said I can still hang out with them now(: Just not
    At any of their houses. "Kinda sucks cos it's April and it rains alot:p but oh well!:)"
    Well... I'm not too exited about the whole house thing.. because my mom like hate's my friends parent's now.. Cos of what "I" did. And I told my mom that it's not their fault when I got grounded. She didn't listen obviously. But anyway yea I'm happier. :D
    But then my dad the one 'whom I live with. Decides to say...
    You're not UN-grounded UN-till I SAY! Before I say the rest of that I would just like to say this.. (My mom is EXTREMELY BIPOLAR reads the book of god takes NO medication at all anymore "she's suppose to" and just get's defensive to EVERYTHING you say) & (My dad he has super bad anger issues.. LIKE REALLY BAD! And the reason my mom left was because of this.. "he b1tches about EVERYTHING" and he threw it all to her and it's pretty annoying when it's an everyday thing -_________- But since I'm the only girl in this household... my dad does it to me.. And when he runs out of his medication.. He gets so MAD!! Which I know "I" complain too.. but I don't yell about it! Anyway.. He had is medication then... When he said that to me about him being the one who decides.. I was shocked? Cos actually the day I got grounded he wanted me to still be able to hang out with friends and not be grounded and that he's just going by what my mom says the whole time.. and that he thinks she's being too hard, and that when she ungrounds me he knows that I'll be happier so he won't care for that.Yet he just has to run out.. and become a TOTAL jerk! And yell at me about his problems EVERYDAY!! One time last week he did it for 2 hours! And I got so annoyed I flipped out yelled and threw glasses and dishes at the wall and told him I DON'T CARE LEAVE ME ALONE!! I'M ALREADY SAD AS IT IS I DON'T NEED YOU'RE PROBLEMS EVERYDAY!! And then he yells back IT'S JUST BECAUSE I'M OUT OF MY MEDICATION! I then said THAT'S NOT AN EXCUSE COS YOU B1TCH ALL THE TIME!! And then he walked up to me squeezed my arm *i bruise SUPER EASILY* and he threw me on the ground and told me that I needed to calm down! And I'm thinking GET Off ME! LET ME GO IN MY MIND!! And I told him to leave me alone.. and he said to shut up you stupid slut! You're always in around! & this hurt because I'm NOT.. EVER! And when I cry because I'm so sensitive and I get so angry... my hair falls out! Literally I have NO idea why :( But it does when I get sad or angry my hair falls out.. But anyway... that happened last week... and I'm even in my room which has NO door.. and I'm just ignoring him.. and he still talks about how his life sucks... and then when he doesn't have his medication he's mad for no reason.
    Everybody is an enemy including me... But still I can't believe after he TOLD me that he was just listening to my mom.. and that whatever she says goes.. he changes it around. ugh.. but hopefully he ungrounds me today too... :)





    Oh. One more thing. I'm kind of getting mad about some of the comments you are leaving.. they aren't answers they are in fact questions.. and rude comments..
    And they are NEVER answering the question... I mean if you don't understand it that's one thing.. but don't talk about how I have no this or that to other thread comment people because I'm going to see this... and honestly this site makes me feel like I'm being yelled at for no REASON whatsoever. I mean I KNOW that my threads are annoying.. but I'm a teenage girl.. I'm really annoying:p but if I get ungrounded today hopfully I'll be happier won't have any problems.. and my questions will be real questions I would like to know... Not just drama(:
    And even if it is I don't want nasty comments or smart alec ones.. or questioning the fact that I'm asking a question...
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:16 AM
    I don't want nasty comments or smart alec ones.. or questioning the fact that I'm asking a question...
    Sorry but that's not the way we work here. When you post a question anyone can response with whatever response they feel appropriate. As long as it doesn't violate our rules, its valid. You don't get to dictate who responds or how. If you think someone violated the rules, then report it and it will be reviewed.

    If you want answers to questions then ask a question instead of posting a rant about your home life problems. The bottom line here is your father is your custodial parent and therefore sets the rules. It sounds like you have several issues with your home life and maybe you need some family counseling because both you and your parents have anger and other issues. None of which can be resolved here.
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:26 AM
    Well rules on this site suck. I'm not ORDERING you to stop.. I'm just asking because I don't want to report answers because they don't answer my question at all.. and by the way if you read it... u would know that I know I talk about my homelife... but honestly this site was my last choice.. and all I needed was someone to talk to.. and I get a bunch of negative things.. this site sucks. Sorry.
    But I'm done here... Annnnooyinngg Maaadmaxine is out (: lol plus Yahoo answers had better answers because their people my age... :D seeya motha ahs
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by MaaadMaxine View Post
    well rules on this site suck. I'm not ORDERING you to stop.. I'm just asking cos I don't want to report answers cos they don't answer my question at all.. and btw if u read it... u wud know that I know i talk about my homelife... but honestly this site was my last choice.. and all i needed was someone to talk to.. and i get a bunch of negative things.. this site sucks. sorry.
    but i'm done here... Annnnooyinngg Maaadmaxine is out (: lol plus yahoo answers had better answers cos their people my age... :D seeya motha ahs
    Don't come back when you have an attitude like that. Spend time thinking about your problems and realize that being grounded should really include no phone or computer. Why don't you study some spelling while you're grounded because that's an area you do need help!
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:32 AM
    Not the best speller but then again I had to LEARN english so don't get on my case? And I'm not grounded anymore. And this is my point.. this site SUCKS!! I can't delete an account or a thread... and when I ask a question it's automatic negative
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by MaaadMaxine View Post
    Not the best speller but then again I had to LEARN english so don't get on my case?? and I'm not grounded anymore. And this is my point.. this site SUCKS!!!! I can't delete an account or a thread...and when I ask a question it's automatic negative
    It's not negative when you speak nicely to people. Name calling is rude. If you have so many problems, why don't you talk to a teacher or counselor at school?
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:40 AM
    -______________________- HahahahHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH...

    Look... My mom hates this school. The concealer called her in her office during walk around..
    And my mother as crazy as she is... flipped out on her and starting cussing at her.. and then now she made sure the NO teacher can ORDER me to do anything because I guess to my mom American teachers have no respect... -_________________-

    I love America and the school it sucks though when I have barely any rules in the school because of what my mom did... You see PEOPLE on this site DO NOT UNDERSTAND my LIFE... and they try helping but it doesn't work.. and it makes me frustrated
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:40 AM
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:41 AM
    You have gotten a lot of negative answers because you have posted a lot of negativity. You clearly have issues at home and we can't solve them. We aren't trying to minimize those issues. But clearly you contribute to them.

    You clearly are not very mature. This site does not "suck", we provide a lot of help to a lot of people. Doesn't mean we can help everyone. We have tried to help you, but you apparently don't like the advice or help we have tried to provide. So you natural reaction is to put down the site. Typical! So go to Yahoo answers and get advice from people your own age who know as little as you do. If they make you feel better fine, but I doubt if they can solve any of your problems.

    Good luck to you, you will need it.
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:41 AM
    Okay. I'm mad at this site too.. because this is changing my words around!! -___________-
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:44 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by MaaadMaxine View Post
    Okay. I'm mad at this site too.. cos this is changing my words around!!!!!! -___________-
    If you spent some time composing your answers calmly and didn't use prohibited language then your posts might be more coherent and understandable. Oh and another rule is we don't allow chat abbreviations here, we type in full words and sentences.
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    Apr 28, 2013, 07:46 AM
    Yes I understand. So if your mom is not OK with school. Why don't change the school. And if you should handle the situation in the school, your mom don't have to interfere with it. If you want to study, made your future, you have to learn lot of things. Lot of people go through such situations. But you have to learn deal with people with different temperament. This site is just like world outside, many kinds of people, its your choice who to respond or not. You have right not to reply.

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