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    Mar 16, 2013, 01:54 PM
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    I hastily broke off with my boyfriend but we made up. Howevever since then the relationship is struggling. I ask him if he wants to break up he said he really wants it to work. He introduce me to his family and friends and he answers me when I called him. I accused him wrongfully. Now after he has proved himself innocent he is snappy, making excuses, text me all hours of the night. Is he breaking up with me
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    Mar 16, 2013, 01:55 PM
    Have you asked him? How would we know?
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    Mar 16, 2013, 02:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Have you asked him? How would we know?
    I have ask him and he said I should not worry because I am his joy and my name brings a smile to his face but his actions differs from his word
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    Mar 16, 2013, 02:09 PM
    Originally posted by Icecream39,
    I have ask him and he said I should not worry because I am his joy and my name brings a smile to his face but his actions differs from his word.
    Have you told him that he doesn't seem to be acting like he wants to stay together with you? If not, it's time to tell him how you feel.
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    Mar 16, 2013, 02:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Have you asked him? How would we know?
    I have ask him and he said I should not worry because I am his joy and my name brings a smile to his face but his actions differs from his word

    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Have you told him that he doesn't seem to be acting like he wants to stay together with you? If not, it's time to tell him how you feel.
    Why would he be sending pictures of myself to me.
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    Mar 16, 2013, 02:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Icecream39 View Post
    I have ask him and he said I should not worry because I am his joy and my name brings a smile to his face but his actions differs from his word

    Why would he be sending pictures of myself to me.
    He sends pictures of you to you?
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    Mar 16, 2013, 04:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    He sends pictures of you to you?
    Yes, he does
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    Mar 16, 2013, 04:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Icecream39 View Post
    Yes, he does
    So, what does that have to do with breaking up?
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    Mar 16, 2013, 11:29 PM
    How old are the both of you? There is no way we would know what is going on in his head, ask him. If you don't think his actions line up with his words, if it bothers you, tell him.
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    Mar 16, 2013, 11:43 PM
    Is the guy's behaviour was same before you accused him or his behaviour changed ? If you see a change then you should clearly talk to him.
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    Mar 17, 2013, 06:04 AM
    Maybe he wants you to look at YOURSELF, and stop making those hasty decisions that turn out wrong and he has to suffer for, and gets the short end of the stick. Maybe listen to him, and not just your friends?

    I would be pissed off royally if I were your guy. Bet he is too.You seem to have much to make up for. Sorry may not be enough.
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