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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:00 PM
    Pregnant?
    I had my period on December 14, 2012. And my breasts started to grow. On January 14, my boyfriend went halfway in for 2 seconds. January 16, he fingered me until I bled a lot. I still haven't had my period for Jan, am I pregnant? Had 2 HPTs and both VERY negative. No symptoms at all. I don't take note on when my cycle is. Been stressing a lot lately about this. Please help
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:17 PM
    A split second or two hours... its possible. You are going to have to wait until you are a few weeks late and take a test. There is no other way to know.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:21 PM
    But he didn't come during the 2 seconds
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:23 PM
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    But he didn't come during the 2 seconds
    Are you aware he is effectively leaking spermatozoa all the time? He doesn't have to ejaculate.

    Treat the penis like a leaking garden hose... play with it and you are going to get wet. Even before the nozzle it turned on.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:25 PM
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    Are you aware he is effectively leaking spermatozoa all the time? He doesn't have to ejaculate.

    Treat the penis like a leaking garden hose...play with it and you are going to get wet. Even before the nozzle it turned on.
    Yes but doesn't studies show that there are no sperms in precum?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:26 PM
    That is incorrect. There is plenty of sperm in the early fluids.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:29 PM
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    That is incorrect. There is plenty of sperm in the early fluids.
    Even if there are sperms. I haven't experienced any spotting.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:29 PM
    Why would you expect spotting if you are pregnant?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:31 PM
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    Why would you expect spotting if you are pregnant?
    Because you spot when the implantation occurred. And through basic science, a sperm can only live up to 3-4 days inside. And it's been 6 days already
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:36 PM
    There is no one hard-and-fast scientific rule for how easily a woman gets pregnant (we are not pre-programmed robots), when implantation occurs, what the signs are, and what the signs of pregnancy are. Every woman is different.

    There IS sperm in precum, and there may NOT be implantation bleeding.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:38 PM
    So if we're not Pre programmed crap, there's also a possibility that it's a no?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:42 PM
    You may be pregnant and you may not be pregnant. And stress won't help your period come if it's due and if you aren't pregnant. Wait another week and take an hpt with first morning urine. Or J_9 may have a better suggestion for you.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:42 PM
    Implantation bleeding is another common myth.

    It takes the sperm 3-5 days to reach the egg. Approximately another 24 hours for fertilization. The it takes 3-5 days for the egg to travel down the fallopian tube to the uteru where it takes about 2 days for complete implantation to occur.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:46 PM
    You had sex on January 16. Today is only the 19th. It's WAYYYY to early to test. You have to wait to see if your period comes next month before testing.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Implantation bleeding is another common myth.

    It takes the sperm 3-5 days to reach the egg. Approximately another 24 hours for fertilization. The it takes 3-5 days for the egg to travel down the fallopian tube to the uteru where it takes about 2 days for complete implantation to occur.
    So what happens if I took the morning after pill?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:47 PM
    Then you might not get pregnant. But it's too late to take it now.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:47 PM
    Are you using a phone app for timing this?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Are you using a phone app for timing this?
    Using my phone lol
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:48 PM
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    Then you might not get pregnant. But it's too late to take it now.
    Aren't these pills max 5 days after intercourse?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 09:49 PM
    3 days or 72 hours.

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