[Vicky14]

Hi.Am 16 And I Need Help
I Bleed a Little After Intercourse The 29 Of Dec. I Had my period the 30th of December and ended The 2nd Of January. I Bleed pinkish/brownish the 3rd of January. I Bleed Brownish/yellowish The 4th Of January. Discharge Yellowish The 5th Of January. On The 5th My boyfriend and I had sex and he inside me twice . January 7, I Cramp, sore breast, nausea,moody, headaches,light headed, and dizziness . January 8, I cramp , heavy breast, nausea, and tiredness. January 9, I cramp, nausea, and Sleepiness.
January 10, cramping and tiredness.
Could I be pregnant or not. What Should I DO?

[J_9]

At this point in time you can only wait until your next period is due to see if it comesxas expected.

[Vicky14]

I Don't Have an exact day for my period. Is Just at the end of each month

[Vicky14]

My Boyfriend Cums Inside me every time we Have sex. I don't get pregnant,why?

[J_9]

Because you are lucky.

[Fr_Chuck]

It only takes one time, no one knows which time,

So you are trying to get pregnant ? How old are both of you ?

But you will have to wait and see, you need to be timing your cycles, and periods, to find out how many days apart they are, there is often a normal cycle of a certain number of days between,
** not just at the end of the month.

[J_9]

She's 16 Chuck and very lucky she hasn't gotten pregnant so far.

[Vicky14]

Yes, Am Trying To Get Pregnant . Am 16. And My Man Is 18.
My Period Is Usually In the 30th Nd Latest a week. ( 5-7 days)
We Been Trying To Have Kids.
Today My Stomach Feels Hard Like A Rock And Lately I Been Feeling Sick. I Have A Fever, Sort of.

[Fr_Chuck]

Sorry, no stomach hard in a few weeks, you are talking about signs that would be in a couple months.

And you are crazy and out of your mind, no 16 year old needs to have a baby. It will ruin your future and you life. You need to have goals for education, good jobs and then worry about kids.

[teacherjenn4]

Are your families aware you are trying to have a baby?

[J_9]

Why are you trying to get pregnant at 16? Do you know how dangerous that is? Do you know how stupid that is?

[Vicky14]

My Man Been Inside Me Since Like August Or September Of 2012.
Well Me And Him Actually Plan This Out. Sometimes We Think Is Not A Good Idea.
Umm Are Paarents Are Kind Of Aware. But They say That's On Us If We Want To Have Kids Young,
How Is It Dangerous And How IS It Stupid ?
I Rather Have Kids Young Then Old. Because that way I'll see them grow and everything. And old we won't really see 'em grown and meet are grandchildren. Y'all get me ?

[J_9]

It's dangerous because your body is not done growing itself, then you ask it to grow a baby and it doesn't know what to do.

So then you risk getting high blood pressure that can cause seizure disorders, you risk diabetes. Preterm labor is also very popular to babies inside of young mothers. Preterm to the point that either the baby dies, or they can't breathe and are placed on a ventilator for months at a cost you could never imagine.

I deliver babies for a living, I am a maternity nurse, and I see firsthand the dangers to both mother and baby when a child is pregnant at such a young age.

Now, it's stupid because you cannot afford to have a baby at your age. You can't have a full time job, you won't finish your education. If that baby is born early and has to stay in the NICU for several months, that hispital bill is going to exceed a couple million dollars.

[Fr_Chuck]

My Man Been Inside Me Since Like August Or September Of 2012.
Well Me And Him Actually Plan This Out. Sometimes We Think Is Not A Good Idea.
Umm Are Paarents Are Kind Of Aware. But They say Thats On Us If We Want To Have Kids Young,
How Is It Dangerous And How IS It Stupid ?
I Rather Have Kids Young Then Old. Because that way i'll see them grow and everything. and old we wont really see 'em grown and meet are grandchildren. Y'all get me ?

Yes if you are real old like 25, you will still see your kids grow and actually provide a good life for them. You will see grandkids and maybe even great grandkids.

[Vicky14]

Damn I Didn't Know That But Thanks. Am Try To Be More Careful And Think More To Be Sure I Want A Kid At This Age.
I Feel Sometimes That My Blood Gets High. But I Never Know Why.
Your Right At The Age Of 25 Is Not Too Old. Is A Good Age Because I Can Get A Career and work and then get pregnant.
But At The Same Time Am scare To Be Pregnant

[teacherjenn4]

Damn I Didn't Know That But Thanks. Am Try To Be More Careful And Think More To Be Sure I Want A Kid At This Age.
I Feel Sometimes That My Blood Gets High. But I Never Know Why.
Your Right At The Age Of 25 Is Not Too Old. Is A Good Age Because i Can Get A Career and work and then get pregnant.
But At The Same Time Am scare To Be Pregnant

Make sure you put school first!

[Vicky14]

Yes.
If I Think Am Pregnant. Should I Stop Drinking Coffee?
Is It BadTo Were High Heels If I Think Am Pregnant ?

[teacherjenn4]

Yes.
If I Think Am Pregnant. Should I Stop Drinking Coffee?
Is It BadTo Were High Heels If I Think Am Pregnant ?

I wouldn't drink coffee and high heels are fine in the early stages of pregnancy.
I would worry more about the things the experts have told you than high heels.

[Vicky14]

Thanks.
Like At 1 in the morning. I had really bad cramps under my belly button. The cramps then when to the right side and they stopped.
Then I had to keep getting up to pee.

[Vicky14]

I Had Sex With My Boyfriend On The 19 And 20 Of January. On The 20th He In Side Me And After We Finish I Bleed It A Little. My Period Isn't Till 2 Weeks.
What Does It Mean When I Bleed?