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megganpitts · Dec 25, 2012, 04:23 PM

So I have a crush on a boy. He does not know I can see ghost. Me and him have been friends for two years. Yesterday he came up to me and told me his father had died. For the whole school day I wanted to tell him iI could help him. I could talk to them, but I'm scared. Will he think I am a freak or a monster? What should I do?

odinn7 · Dec 25, 2012, 04:29 PM

What should you do... you should probably not tell him such a thing.

megganpitts · Dec 25, 2012, 04:31 PM

Originally Posted by odinn7

What should you do....you should probably not tell him such a thing.

but I want him to like me for me. He told me every thing about him yet I'm holding this one thing back.

odinn7 · Dec 25, 2012, 04:33 PM

Ok, then do what you want... why come here and ask?

In my opinion, telling him this could push him away.

talaniman · Dec 25, 2012, 04:47 PM

No need to push all that you are on him, he may not be ready for that sort of thing at this point. But you have been friends long enough to know if he can handle such deep knowledge or not.

Its you that has the crush, but does he? If you don' know, find out before you spill your deepest secrets about yourself.

megganpitts · Dec 25, 2012, 06:57 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

No need to push all that you are on him, he may not be ready for that sort of thing at this point. But you have been friends long enough to know if he can handle such deep knowledge or not.

Its you that has the crush, but does he? If you don' know, find out before you spill your deepest secrets about yourself.

OK but when should I tell him I know he likes me case he told me he dose and he knows I like him. So when would be the right time to tell him?

talaniman · Dec 25, 2012, 07:01 PM

How old are you both?

megganpitts · Dec 25, 2012, 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you both?

We are bofe 14 next week. Are birth day is on the same day. Lol

Fr_Chuck · Dec 25, 2012, 07:29 PM

Most people don't believe in ghosts and most likely he will think you are strange.

Next for those that even believe in paranormal, they feel they are not really ghosts but spirits, and are evil, and they merely trick you into thinking they are real.
The bible is clear to warn people not to try and talk to spirits

talaniman · Dec 25, 2012, 07:52 PM

I think you not disclose any of your personal secrets just in case you are wrong about him being mature and trustworthy. He may be a swell guy because you like him, but he is very young, as are you.

Mistakes happen.

souldreamer · Dec 25, 2012, 08:00 PM

Oh Come on! Talk to him...
I will share my experience to you... I have also a crush on someone and I'm shy when I'm with him
But what I do... I have my friends on my back and I talked to him
Listen, there's no bad idea if you have a crush on someone we are human of course but you can't force someone to like you...

odinn7 · Dec 25, 2012, 08:03 PM

Originally Posted by souldreamer

Oh Come on! Talk to him...
I will share my experience to you... I have also a crush on someone and I'm shy when I'm with him
But what I do .... I have my friends on my back and I talked to him
Listen, there's no bad idea if you have a crush on someone we are human of course but you can't force someone to like you...

Did you even read her question? It's not if she should talk to the kid, it's if she should tell him she see's ghosts. Read and comprehend before you answer. According to her other thread that she posted, she gets made fun of for claiming to see ghosts... so knowing that, it's probably not a good idea for her to tell this to the boy she likes.

megganpitts · Dec 25, 2012, 08:04 PM

-_- I am never going to be able to tell him without him freaking out. I mean we trust one another and never keep anything from one another. But uuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhh I wish I could just know what he is going to do

God there no good way to do this is there

odinn7 · Dec 25, 2012, 08:07 PM

No, not really.

Listen, you already posted about being made fun of. Now this boy may not do that to you... but what if he does? And to be honest, he probably will. He's a 14 year old boy and is likely to be an idiot. You are best off to just wait it out and if anything develops between you two, then, when you feel comfortable and feel like you can trust him... then maybe tell him.

I'm not saying don't talk to him... by all means, if that's what you want then talk to the kid... just hold off on telling him this secret of yours.

megganpitts · Dec 25, 2012, 08:16 PM

Originally Posted by odinn7

No, not really.

Listen, you already posted about being made fun of. Now this boy may not do that to you....but what if he does? And to be honest, he probably will. He's a 14 year old boy and is likely to be an idiot. You are best off to just wait it out and if anything develops between you two, then, when you feel comfortable and feel like you can trust him....then maybe tell him.

I'm not saying don't talk to him....by all means, if that's what you want then talk to the kid....just hold off on telling him this secret of yours.

OK I hope he dose not ask me why I ont come on any of the dates with him to his house.

Well there not really dates . I'm mean we don't go out but he always seams to ask me to come and eat with him and he brings me thing like follwers but I have only been to on... is that counted as a date ? I'm so confused