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    Dec 8, 2012, 12:18 AM
    Is it OK to be a possessive type?
    Hi!
    So the guy that I've liked forever asked me out,and I'm so happy
    The problem is,we've dated like two years ago,and when we dated,we never talked,and my boyfriend is thinking that it's going to be just like last time :(
    And I'm not really shy,but I just don't want to do/say anything stupid in front of him
    I'm really a possessive type girl who loves hugs and loves to walk directly besides the person I like,which is my boyfriend
    And I don't want him to break up with me,honestly,I would love to be with him forever if possible
    My friend told me that he honestly thinks that my boyfriend is just nervous
    And when he told me that,I replied,"nervous?what does he have to be nervous about?"
    Then it hit me,what if he's nervous that it will be like last time,where we never talk?
    This is why I want to go back to how I act,possessive,where I give him hugs,and try to always stay near him
    I actually woldn't mind being scolded by him either,I just really like him and I want to stay with him forever
    So should I be possessive?
    Thanks you all!
    Loves to all of youzzz!!
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    OK,byeeeee!
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    Dec 8, 2012, 12:38 AM
    I think you mean affectionate, not possessive. Possessive is not good. That would mean that you don't want him talking to other girls, etc. Affectionate means that you want to hold hands and look like boyfriend and girlfriend in front of other people.

    May I ask how old the two of you are? Our advice will be age specific.
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    Dec 8, 2012, 12:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    I think you mean affectionate, not possessive. Possessive is not good. That would mean that you don't want him talking to other girls, etc. Affectionate means that you want to hold hands and look like boyfriend and girlfriend in front of other people.

    May I ask how old the two of you are? Our advice will be age specific.
    We're 12 and 13,7th grade,and yeah,true,that's my type of possessive,but I'll start calling it affectionate because that's another word of my type of possessive,but anyway we're both in 7th grade

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