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TMB26 · Nov 30, 2012, 08:44 PM

Long story short, my friend called me, I whispered to my dad to say something to have me get off, and my friend heard me. Yeah it was what we called "A Move" I will admit and I did apologize. But we've been through these stupid arguments before and gotten over them in 2 weeks or so... But this time I don't know if I want to be friends again, due to the fact he kind of puts me down, and he kind of makes me feel like I should be like him because he's so great and all that jazz. Like we had a lot of good times together and we've been really good friends for years and gotten through stuff like this but I just don't know. I want to leave it alone, then again I want to be angry and be like DUDE STOP I'M SICK OF THIS! He also calls me all the time, which is fine, but I do wrestling and go in between my parents houses to so it's a tight schedule! But after a while it got to annoying to the fact where I slowly began blowing him off because I was mad and didn't want to say anything to hurt his feelings. It sucks man I've had the worst week too, I got my butt kicked at wrestling most of the week, almost fought a kid at lunch the previous Monday... Now this! Like aaaaaah!! I want some alone time and I feel everyone thinks I should kiss their and be like them and I'm done! What should I do in your opinions? Because right now I don't have a clear enough mind to figure out myself!

Alty · Nov 30, 2012, 08:50 PM

A friend should enrich your life, should be there for you, should lift you up, not bring you down. From what you're saying, this person isn't a friend. I wouldn't keep a person like that in my life, but that's me.

Then again, I did when I was a teen. There were a lot of people that I considered friends, that made my life hell, that treated me like crap. Live and learn. Now that I'm older I'm very picky about who I call a friend. If they don't meet the standards I stated in my first paragraph, they don't end up on my list of friends. Life is too short to waste on people that do nothing buy cause you stress and unhappiness.

Homegirl 50 · Nov 30, 2012, 09:56 PM

You tell your friend you need some chill time and you take it. A real friend will respect that. If he does not, don't worry about it.

TMB26 · Dec 1, 2012, 10:16 AM

I think both of you are right, it does sort of suck though because we went for a long time without having these petty little pointless arguments... But what both of you are saying is true! Thank you guys!

TMB26 · Dec 1, 2012, 10:32 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You tell your friend you need some chill time and you take it. A real friend will respect that. If he does not, don't worry about it.

In response to the chill time thing, I did want to say that, but I ignored all his calls because he wanted help with algebra, I was going to get back to him honest to God but he kept calling me and wouldn't be patient... so I got mad and did that!