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    lauraday123 Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 26, 2012, 04:33 PM
    Missing ex boyfriend and plan to get him back
    I know this may sound silly but I need to try this. My ex and I broke up a few days ago because we fight a lot. We broke up 3 months ago and then he came back to me and we were happy until a few days ago when it all fell apart again. I was being a total b***. I know I have to change and I want to try again. We had one discussion yesterday and I said I was sorry and that I wanted him back and he said no, but we could stay civil with each other. I just said okay.

    My plan is to be silent until his birthday next week. I, with the help of all his friends will plan a huge surprise party for him and I want to make it super special with all the things and people he loves. Do u think we can have a second chance?

    Please help!
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    Nov 26, 2012, 04:39 PM
    I can't think of anything WORSE than a surprise party for an EX who just told you NO, he isn't going to get back together with you. What are you thinking girl?
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    Nov 26, 2012, 07:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by joypulv View Post
    I can't think of anything WORSE than a surprise party for an EX who just told you NO, he isn't going to get back together with you. What are you thinking girl?
    But I ed up this time and it would r a way to show him how much he means to me. How come everyone is so pessimistic and tells me not to try? What happened to fighting for your love? If he says no obviously I won't try again but isn't it worth one more shot? The first time we broke up it was due to him cheating on me and then coming back crying to me... I forgave him therefore he should be able to do the same. And I didn't cheat on him, all I did was lose my temper badly over something he said that I found insulting
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    Nov 26, 2012, 07:51 PM
    Ok well, you seem pretty set on doing it. So then why ask us? Why not just go for it and see what happens?
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    Nov 26, 2012, 07:54 PM
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    Ok well, you seem pretty set on doing it. So then why ask us? Why not just go for it and see what happens?
    Because I'm in need of any opinions, preferably new ones that I may not have heard before. All I keep hearing is that it will make me look like an indoor. Doesn't anyone out there think I might make me seem like the better person as a way to apologize? Is it really that bad to do it?
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    Nov 26, 2012, 07:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lauraday123 View Post
    because I'm in need of any opinions, preferably new ones that I may not have heard before. all I keep hearing is that it will make me look like an indoor. doesn't anyone out there think I might make me seem like the better person as a way to apologize? is it realy that bad to do it?
    Idiot* not indoor

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