[Alty]

Honey bun I'm married

To who? Did you remarry the husband you divorced in October, or is this a new guy?

[JudyKayTee]

Honey bun I'm married

Please don't call me honey bun. Maybe it's your style. It's not mine.

It's also dismissive and disrespectful - although I'm really not surprised.

So you have remarried since October and this new husband also has a mistress?

[Enigma1999]

Please don't call me honey bun. Maybe it's your style. It's not mine.

It's also dismissive and disrespectful - although I'm really not surprised.

So you have remarried since October and this new husband also has a mistress?

Perhaps the husband's mistress enjoys being called "honey bun" while indulging in some hot hate sex!

[joypulv]

I read ALL your old posts. One thing that strikes me is that they are all questions that have no answers. They are childish and simple, like why does he stare at me when having sex, and I never would answer any of them because all I could say would be 'How would I know?' Plus you give no background to any of them, so here you are asking about suspicions about contacting an ex, after casually bringing up a 2 year fling last fall, and then brushing it off as 'just once a month.' It sounds like a shallow and meaningless existence to me.

[JudyKayTee]

I read ALL your old posts. One thing that strikes me is that they are all questions that have no answers. They are childish and simple, like why does he stare at me when having sex, and I never would answer any of them because all I could say would be 'How would I know?' Plus you give no background to any of them, so here you are asking about suspicions about contacting an ex, after casually bringing up a 2 year fling last fall, and then brushing it off as 'just once a month.' It sounds like a shallow and meaningless existence to me.

I agree - but I believe posting on AMHD fulfills some need, emotional, whatever. There has to be a reason why OP continues to come back to AMHD posting info which makes no sense.

I'm thinking it's a made up existence. I think OP can't keep her stories straight - married, husband has mistress, divorced, married, husband has mistress.

Not in real life, not since last October.

[JudyKayTee]

Honey bun I'm married

Notice that OP cannot focus - repeats the same thing.

I also note a great variation in writing style - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/childr...ty-649352.html.

Alty, may I quote you?: "https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...rk-646077.html

Seeing as this thread was started less than 6 months ago, and you claimed that your husband started cheating on you a year ago, well, what comes around goes around. You've been cheating for over 2 years according to the above post, and with a married man. It's hard to feel bad for you when you're doing to another woman the very thing you claim was done to you. And it's also pretty evident that you started your affair before your husband cheated on you. Even if he didn't, you're still a home wrecker."

Something isn't right.

[lisa1471]

Going through therapy for my husbands long term 3yr sex fling.Which can be salvage because it was only sex.I know everything. Him holding her hands and locking.Kissing before intercourse and performing oral for three yrs.I know she feels used because that's what he did.She feels lonely and used.I think now we can move on.I can forgive him for this mistake but our marriage is built on love. Can this be saved.