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Oct 26, 2012, 04:32 AM
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I'm tired of sex!
I've been going out with this guy for awhile now. I'm 19 and he's 18. I don't feel connected with him anymore when we have sex only because I feel like that's all he wants me for and its also the fact that it's the only thing we do when we see each other.
we barely see each other because he's busy or whatever. But what is a guy his age really busy with?? I asked if we could go on a date and he responded with "oh i don't like spending money on girls" as if I'm a slut he picked up off the side of the road or something. Saying I have to spend my money on him before he does on me as if I was a gold digger when I haven't asked him for anything in our relationship ever. I've given him money just because I want to and he comes over my house and I always feed him. He's obviously is immature which annoys me to a certain degree when I realized he's taking this a little too far. When we see each other in public he completely ignores me. I've seen him randomly on the street and instead of stopping he walks past me as if I wasn't even standing there. He ignored me again when I saw him with his brother. He tells me "I love you" but if he did why would he do that.
he thinks I lie to him all the time when in reality I'm a pretty blunt person. He said he doesn't like kissing so I try to hold back when in reality I'm a kissaholic when I'm in a relationship with someone I can't get enough of but only behind closed doors.its too much for me, he makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him so there's no point in having sex with him. I would like a balance of everything but since he's too selfish to see that I don't know what to do.
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Oct 26, 2012, 05:41 AM
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Oct 26, 2012, 06:59 AM
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 Originally Posted by Cat1864
Yes it is
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Oct 26, 2012, 07:07 AM
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Sounds like you are nothing more than a booty call for him. How long do you think the relationship would last if you were to withhold the sex and intimacy?
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Oct 26, 2012, 08:14 AM
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I agree, I don't know where you got the impression you were a girl friend, And no idea why you are with him. It is not the sex it is the fact you are really just a non paid hooker, a booty call.
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Oct 26, 2012, 08:53 AM
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Dump him.
I had to chime in. He doesn't want a relationship with you. Dump him. You can do better. Even nothing is better.
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