[C0bra_M3nace]

I'm sorry. I actually am sorry, I shouldn't have carried on, I was acting like a child, i'll admit. I should learn to keep some things to myself so I don't insult people. Sorry.

Now the next step is to read and re-read the answers given to you. Ignore the answers that you wanted to see, and focus on those that you don't. Those are the answers that will help you think rationally.

[BridgeOfLight97]

Yes, so thank you very much for the advice. I mean it :) You actually are quite helpful.

[C0bra_M3nace]

Yes, so thank you very much for the advice. I mean it :) You actually are quite helpful.

I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say that we were never trying to jab at you. A lot of us here believe a little tough love is the best way to get people on the right track.

You may not think so sometimes, but mommy knows best. She's in your life to guide you and help you. You may not agree what she has to say sometimes, but she always makes decision because she loves and cares about you. There's always a good reason, just keep that in mind.

[JudyKayTee]

The illegal age would be 18, under that is fine. It is your mothers decision on whether you will be able to date him while living under her roof.

What? You are saying it's legal to date him under 18 but illegal to date him over 18?

[JudyKayTee]

Stop saying parents. It's parent. As in just one. And your telling me to get my facts right... Geez, way to contradict yourself.

If there was any question about how mature you are it's been answered.

I agree with your mother - you're too young to make your own decisions.

I can only imagine the attitude live and in person -

[asompur]

What? You are saying it's legal to date him under 18 but illegal to date him over 18?

Yes. In my country an adult is someone 18yearsplus. Contact between an adult and a minor is illegal.

[ScottGem]

Yes. In my country an adult is someone 18yearsplus. Contact between an adult and a minor is illegal.

But that is NOT what you said. And please cite what country and what laws specify "contact". If you are going to cite the law, you need to be able to provide cites to back it up.

[C0bra_M3nace]

Yes. In my country an adult is someone 18yearsplus. Contact between an adult and a minor is illegal.

Your posts are so vague it terrifies me. So if I go to your country and say "Hi" to anyone under 18 and it's illegal? I seriously doubt that.

The word "contact" is very broad. You need to elaborate a bit more please.

[JudyKayTee]

Your posts are so vague it terrifies me. So if I go to your country and say "Hi" to anyone under 18 and it's illegal? I seriously doubt that.

The word "contact" is very broad. You need to elaborate a bit more please.

Out of greenies - so I'll applaud.

I'm working on these comments:

"I said she would have to do it in secrecy if SHE chose to continue her relationship"

If wanting to continue your relationship until YOU are an adult you would have to do it in serecy"

"The illegal age would be 18, under that is fine."

Again - dating under 18 is fine; over is not.

I think you can say "hello" to people under 18 as long as you don't speak to people over 18.

[ScottGem]

Clearly there is a language barrier here, but asompur, needs to understand that while this is an international site we use English to communicate. And making mistakes due to languages issues can be dangerous.