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    Aug 4, 2012, 04:27 PM
    Found empty condom pack in ex girlfriend Please Help?
    OK so me and my Girlfriend have been broken up 3 weeks and I been staying away from her. No call no contact I been doing clean Break Reason I left was because she was abusive last fight she broke my things destroyed my Property broke my Laptop broke my microwave and car sterio Physically abused me hit punched scratched me I called police they came and she left. There was a Party in LA and we have the same friends so she ended up being there4 wearing my favorite dress. She knew I was going I'm assuming. So at the Party we ended up talking and going home and sleeping together. When I woke up I noticed and empty condom packet next to the bed. We had been broken up 3 weeks I asked her about it she said it was her brotheres that she left them the key to use the place. I told her I didn't believe her... she said I'm telling the truth you can even ask hi. She said I could stay awhile and she left for work... I found another empy packet on top of her dresser... she called me from work said she misses me... she said she want to ease back in 1 day at a time... I told her I found another emty packet... during the Break I also slept with a girl so I guess its only fair she can as well... I was upset she may have been lying... reason I left the relationship was she also cheated and lied she kissed a guy at a club when I asked her she said he was kissing me I wasn't kissing him. My friend saw it and called me or else I wouldn't have known... anyway when I saw the emty pack I was upset it hurt... I shouldn't have4 went back to her place I get it... she told me she been missing me so much and can't move forward without me she just can't she said... she wants me or nothing at all she said... im confused my emotions are everywhere some Please give me some good advice... she called me from work 3 times that day I didn't anser after I saw 2 emty packs I texted her I found another emty pack she said it was andrew her brother again... I sent her a text that after I seen the empty pack I am not going back to this relationship... she texted nothing Back after that I haven't heard from her since... is that the last I will here from her? Someone please give me good advice...
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    Aug 4, 2012, 04:32 PM
    First you were broke up, she could have had 20 packs, it was none of your business. You broke up, so she was free. Get over it. You broke up with her, did no contact, but then broke it by sleeping with her, Maybe she just placed it there to try and make you jealous, guess it worked too good, or she was cheating, does not matter you were not a couple.

    No contact is no contact for a reason, that includes sleeping with them.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 04:41 PM
    I've got to ask, why are are you worried about it? It doesn't sound like you two got along very well to begin with.
    Honestly, she doesn't sound like the type of person that anyone worth their salt should be involved with anyway.
    Bottom line is you were not together, you were broken up, going no contact what she did was her business, just as what you did was yours.
    Go back to the no contact, if you don't hear from her, thank your lucky stars.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 05:01 PM
    Good Point you Guys.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 05:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    I've got to ask, why are are you worried about it? It doesn't sound like you two got along very well to begin with.
    Honestly, she doesn't sound like the type of person that anyone worth their salt should be involved with anyway.
    Bottom line is you were not together, you were broken up, going no contact what she did was her business, just as what you did was yours.
    Go back to the no contact, if you don't hear from her, thank your lucky stars.
    Good Point Thank you That is closure
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    Aug 4, 2012, 05:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    first you were broke up, she could have had 20 packs, it was none of your business. You broke up, so she was free. get over it. You broke up with her, did no contact, but then broke it by sleeping with her, Maybe she just placed it there to try and make you jealous, guess it worked too good, or she was cheating, does not matter you were not a couple.

    No contact is no contact for a reason, that includes sleeping with them.
    Good Point Thank you I feel better

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