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    iAmTaylor94 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 22, 2012, 11:05 PM
    I Found This Girl, She May Be The One
    I feel very guilty asking this question because there are people on here looking for family, and such, but I haven't found what else I can do.
    I made an account, on a dating site called POF (Plenty Of Fish)
    And as I was searching through my matches I found this girl, named Cali.
    She immediately caught my eye. She was so beautiful, so I read her profile info, and her about me, realizing that she matched me PERFECTLY. Every single thing.
    I felt it in my heart that I had to find her. I messaged her first obviously, but then I found out that she hadn't been on POF since 12/06/2011...
    So right then and there I knew I had to do everything in my power to find her before it was too late. All I had was a city and state, a first name, and a couple of pics, not much to go on. I used TinEye to look for her pics. It came up with nothing. I used a site that let me search her username, and I came up with nothing still. I don't know what to do. This girl, could be the girl of my dreams, I have to find her. Please any advice.
    PS : I can't use people search sites because I don't have a last name.
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    rmndeep773 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 22, 2012, 11:09 PM
    HI... is she told u her contact number or any other detail..
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    Jul 23, 2012, 12:00 AM
    No she hasn't told me anything because she hasn't been on. All I have is her first name, city, state, and age.
    She has a bachelors degree in nursing, uhm, yeah that's like all I know.
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    Jul 23, 2012, 05:17 AM
    This is called over obsessive, and if you did find her and she heard this, I would say that her first reaction would be a restraining order.

    You saw a photo and a bio, sorry you don't know anything about her.

    Get professional help.
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    Jul 24, 2012, 04:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    this is called over obsessive, and if you did find her and she heard this, I would say that her first reaction would be a restraining order.

    You saw a photo and a bio, sorry you don't know anything about her.

    Get professional help.
    Bingo! These are the cases the I refuse to work and the reason why I get signed releases when I do search for someone.
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    Jul 24, 2012, 07:41 PM
    Really, time to forget about her and move on.

    First, the simple fact that she hasn't been back may indicate that she has found someone already so where would you fit in?

    Second, how many people lie about themselves on dating sites? Probably quite a few... most, I would say if I had to guess. So how do you know what she wrote even means anything?

    Last, she's gone, you don't know her, never talked to her, just give it up. So she's "perfect" for you... Kate Beckinsale is perfect for me too but I have reality in my head that tells me that it's not going to happen so I don't obsess over her and try to find her.
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