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    haley12 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 18, 2012, 11:10 AM
    I'm insecure. Can you help?
    I'm 12 and I'm really insecure about my body. When I look in the mirror alls I see is a fat, ugly, useless piece of . I have 3 brothers and they make fun of being by saying I'm fat and ugly but they don't know how much it hurts. I'm always wanting to change myself but then I realised that I'm not fat I just have a big and small boobs that make me look fat and I hate it. I've never told anyone I felt this way but I decided I should now so I could get some advice from others. Thanks.
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    Jul 18, 2012, 11:13 AM
    You do realize that's why brothers exist -- to give their sisters grief and agony. Now, how can you rise above their stupid little games?
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    Jul 18, 2012, 02:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    You do realize that's why brothers exist -- to give their sisters grief and agony. Now, how can you rise above their stupid little games?
    I don't know. How can I rise above it.
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    Jul 18, 2012, 03:10 PM
    One way: My mother always told me that they just want me to react and to make me miserable, so don't react, ignore them, and they will get tired of it all. It might take a bit, but stick to your gun and ignore them and don't react.
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