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    Socalgrl Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 30, 2012, 08:45 PM
    No sex drive
    It has been 3 yrs since I had my first child and 2 yrs since I have had my 2nd child. Since having my 2nd child I have had a really low sex drive and not able to reach orgasm. Is this normal? Will I ever have an orgasm and get my sex drive back up?
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    Jun 30, 2012, 09:39 PM
    Fool around a bit first? Get more excited before you start.
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    Jul 1, 2012, 10:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by shishi26 View Post
    fool around a bit first? get more excited before you start.
    The hubby and I have tried that so many times but it still does not help.
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    Jul 1, 2012, 10:32 AM
    Talk to your doctor. Maybe your estragen is low? In a women that is low mo jo

    Maybe there is some complications from your last delivery?
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    Jul 1, 2012, 10:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by fmbush View Post
    talk to your doctor. Maybe your estragen is low? in a women that is low mo jo

    maybe there is some complications from your last delivery?
    I talked to my doctor. She said for me to wait and things will be back to normal. Honestly I feel so frustrated :-(

    Guess I will try to talk to a different doctor.
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    Jul 1, 2012, 11:11 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Socalgrl View Post
    I talked to my doctor. She said for me to wait and things will be back to normal. Honestly i feel so frustrated :-(

    Guess i will try to talk to a different doctor.

    She thinks two years isn't long enough to wait - or am I misreading something.

    Yes, by all means find another Doctor. It could be anything from hormones to nerve damage.

    What type of birth control do you use? Some birth control can have this unwanted effect.

    Can you climax by masturbating?
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    Jul 1, 2012, 11:20 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    She thinks two years isn't long enough to wait - or am I misreading something.

    Yes, by all means find another Doctor. It could be anything from hormones to nerve damage.

    What type of birth control do you use? Some birth control can have this unwanted effect.

    Can you climax by masturbating?
    You are reading it correctly. The birth control I am on is Mirena. I don't really masturbate that much anymore because of my low sex drive. When I did try masturbating a while back I was not able to climax. Sex and masturbation just is not the same anymore. I hate that I can not satisfy my husband. He is very understanding about this though.
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    Jul 1, 2012, 12:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Socalgrl View Post
    You are reading it correctly. The birth control i am on is Mirena. I dont really masturbate that much anymore because of my low sex drive. When i did try masturbating a while back i was not able to climax. Sex and masturbation just is not the same anymore. I hate that i can not satisfy my husband. He is very understanding about this though.
    I would find another Doctor and ask about both your low sex drive and the effect the Mirena might be having.

    (Good about your husband!)
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