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    Jun 23, 2012, 04:08 PM
    What are some signs of parents divorcing?
    I want to know if my parents are getting divorced but I don't know the signs... they've both been cussing a lot more than they used too. They are fighting but that's my moms fault... jus please give me some answers. I'm a 13 year old female with two younger sisters that I am mostly in charge of, I need to know what to expect.
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    Jun 23, 2012, 04:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by FlynnRiderLover View Post
    I want to know if my parents are getting divorced but I don't know the signs...they've both been cussing a lot more than they used too. They are fighting but that's my moms fault...jus please give me some answers. I'm a 13 year old female with two younger sisters that I am mostly in charge of, I need to know what to expect.

    There are no signs. People surprise each other every day.

    Why do you think they are thinking/talking divorce?

    Why are you in charge of 2 younger sisters?
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    Jun 23, 2012, 04:36 PM
    Signs, one parent packs up and moves out and does not come back. That is about it,

    Some parents fight like they hate each other and stay married 60 years. Others don't say a bad word and divorce in 3 years.
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    Jun 23, 2012, 07:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    There are no signs. People surprise each other every day.

    Why do you think they are thinking/talking divorce?


    Why are you in charge of 2 younger sisters?

    Mostly because my mom doesn't want to deal withm y baby
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    Jun 23, 2012, 07:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    There are no signs. People surprise each other every day.

    Why do you think they are thinking/talking divorce?


    Why are you in charge of 2 younger sisters?

    Why am I in charge of my sisters. Because my mom doesn't want too. My baby sister is my babygirl and my other sister is close to me as well.

    They've been fighting and things so it makes me worry. My mom cussed my dad out in public a few times and gathered a few looks... I walked away with my sisters. But my mom an me never get along so I don't know what I should do. I no I can't do anything but I feel like I should because I always have to do something about everyone's problems.

    I just need something... advice, anything. I do cut and I have tried to stop but the stress is coming back on harder again and I'm afraid I'll start back... I've tried the rubber band thing and I think the nail thing is stupid... I am totally confused. I need a counsiler but my mom says I should count my blessings and my dad doesn't like counseling because my nana--his mom, my best friend--has been in counseling for a long time because she had a rough life as well.

    Help?
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    Jun 23, 2012, 07:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Signs, one parent packs up and moves out and does not come back. That is about it,

    Some parents fight like they hate each other and stay married 60 years. others don't say a bad word and divorce in 3 years.

    Thanks, I kind of figured some of that but I still appreciate that you answered... and that last tidbit you put in is the reason I'm so scared. Because my mom is so unpredictable. But thanks!
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