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    Jun 14, 2012, 07:13 PM
    My crush doesn't like me back
    I've liked this guy for awhile, and my best friend likes him too. The difference is that my best friend is best friends with our crush and he barely talks to me. How do I make him like me or at least be my friend? There's not even a week of school left, what am I supposed to do?
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    Jun 14, 2012, 08:01 PM
    Try talking to him , & tell him how you feel.
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    Jun 14, 2012, 08:05 PM
    You can't make someone like you. You want to just push your best friend out of the way? Get over it. He does not like you. He is not the only boy in the world
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    Jun 14, 2012, 08:15 PM
    I'm curious. Why are you going after this guy if your best friend also likes him and already has a relationship with him? That's not what best friends do.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 02:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    I'm curious. Why are you going after this guy if your best friend also likes him and already has a relationship with him? That's not what best friends do.
    She doesn't have a relationship with him, they're just good friends.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 02:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You can't make someone like you. You want to just push your best friend out of the way? Get over it. He does not like you. He is not the only boy in the world
    I know I can't make him like me, and I'm not trying to. My best friend is actually trying to help me with him, were close like two fingers crossed. My friend and I are helping each other. I won't get over it because I can tell he's the one. And he does talk to me just not as much as I would hoped he would.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 02:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mandy1234 View Post
    try talking to him , & tell him how you feel.
    I do talk to him and he knows how I feel about him.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 03:49 PM
    In your question you said your best friend likes him, you also asked how do I make him like me or at least be my friend?

    You can't make someone do either, they either want to be your friend or they don't. You said he does talk to you just not as much as you'd like. Maybe he does not want to be best friends with you.
    How old are you?
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    Jun 15, 2012, 04:22 PM
    she doesn't have a relationship with him, they're just good friends.
    But she likes him, and she's your best friend, so why are you trying to get him too?

    I've liked this guy for awhile, and my best friend likes him too
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    Jul 26, 2012, 04:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    But she likes him, and she's your best friend, so why are you trying to get him too?

    We both liked him and we support each other. We both said we would be fine if he went out with either one of us. But he's not going out with either so I just want to be closer to him. I know we can be friends but I'm not sure how to get close..
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    Jul 26, 2012, 08:24 PM
    It does not appear this guy is interested in you. You can't make someone want to be with you.
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