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masonmommy0321 · Apr 2, 2012, 12:46 PM

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. I have one son he has two with his x. They were together for almost 8 years. He used to tell me and show me all the text that was sent back and forth. Then that stopped and now he talks to her about his family and hers while I am not home. He talks to her in front of me but it is always really short.

I find out about things when he tells me some of what they were talking about. He is not really all the great with money so I help manage his bills. But I found out that he was going to pay for his brother rehab (which I have no problem with) but my problem is that I heard about it like this "me and my friend were talking and I told her how I might be going to Cleveland to check my brother into rehab and she told me that it would be the best thing for him." I didn’t know anything about it until then,

I just feel like he is telling her everything before I find it out and it just seems to me like they are acting like they are still together. I don't know someone please help!!

Fr_Chuck · Apr 2, 2012, 01:26 PM

Is he going to her home and hanging out ? He has a child with her, they will talk and discuss things for years to come

masonmommy0321 · Apr 3, 2012, 06:02 AM

Yeah he goes to her house. Last time he went to Ohio to see his boys I called he ignored my call then text me a couple seconds later and told me he was at her parents house with her and he will call me when he was done.

sweetestredzz24 · Jun 9, 2012, 07:33 PM

My boyfriend of six moths had ah baby with his ex now he never told me she was having ah baby and I found out via Facebook. I stupidly took him back cause I love him now today he visited me on work wit his so called nephew so we went upstairs 2 meet my girlfriends when we bumped into his brother girlfriend she said something that had me really confuse now I had this feeling that he was back wit her I don't know how 2 confront him by the way I think am pregs

ryananthony · Jun 9, 2012, 07:46 PM

Well, try not to take this too seriously, he might be having a hard time, and he probably misses his ex, try to talk to him, see if anything is wrong and ask him about his 2 kids, tell him what his brother is going to be doing in couple of years.
And ask him to stop talking to her, it makes you uneasy.
Hope I helped

Trehamorelli · Jul 11, 2012, 10:21 AM

Ok so I am having a similar issue me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs and have an 11 month old. Or relationship was rocky until my daughter was almost born. He would always disappear for weeks to the area where his ex and other daughter lives now he is primarily home with me and the baby but this past weekend said that he was going to visit his brother and would be home on sat always there was a reason why he could call me phone dead or otherwise. Just found out that him and his ex talked on the phone 4-5 times while he was commuting which would be understandable if not for the fact that I had his older daughter with me. I tried to talk to him but he just got mad. I don't know what to do.

Trehamorelli · Jul 11, 2012, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by Trehamorelli

Ok so I am having a similar issue me and my bf have been together for 2 yrs and have an 11 month old. Or relationship was rocky until my daughter was almost born. He would always disappear for weeks to the area where his ex and other daughter lives now he is primarily home with me and the baby but this past weekend said that he was going to visit his brother and would be home on sat always there was a reason y he could call me phone dead or otherwise. Just found out that him and his ex talked on the phone 4-5 times while he was commuting which would be understandable if not for the fact that I had his older daughter with me. I tried to talk to him but he just got mad. I don't know what to do.

Not to mention he didn't come home till Sunday.

mmresd · Jul 11, 2012, 10:24 AM

Originally Posted by masonmommy0321

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. I have one son he has two with his x. They were together for almost 8 years. He used to tell me and show me all the text that was sent back and forth. Then that stopped and now he talks to her about his family and hers while I am not home. He talks to her in front of me but it is always really short.

I find out about things when he tells me some of what they were talking about. He is not really all the great with money so I help manage his bills. But I found out that he was going to pay for his brother rehab (which I have no problem with) but my problem is that I heard about it like this "me and my friend were talking and I told her how I might be going to Cleveland to check my brother into rehab and she told me that it would be the best thing for him." I didn’t know anything about it until then,

I just feel like he is telling her everything before I find it out and it just seems to me like they are acting like they are still together. I don't know someone please help!!!

You can't! You either trust him or you don't. If you don't then there is no point in continuing this relationship, end it and end the drama. If you do, then don't ask this question to yourself again.

Trehamorelli · Jul 11, 2012, 10:29 AM

Ok so I am having a similar issue me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs and have an 11 month old. Or relationship was rocky until my daughter was almost born. He would always disappear for weeks to the area where his ex and other daughter lives now he is primarily home with me and the baby but this past weekend said that he was going to visit his brother and would be home on sat always there was a reason why he couldn't call me phone dead or otherwise. Just found out that him and his ex talked on the phone 4-5 times while he was commuting which would be understandable if not for the fact that I had his older daughter with me. I tried to talk to him but he just got mad. I don't know what to do. By the way he did come home till Sunday. Right after he text me at 745 that he was on his way home his baby mama called to speak this his older daughter a 8 in the am. Coincidence??

CarmenFreckles · Sep 5, 2012, 09:45 AM

FRECKLES"

I am having this issue. I am together with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he has two baby momma's. One is cool and the second is a pain. She wants him to drop what he is doing to watch his two daughters while she goes shopping. Or he has to watch them when she goes to work at 4pm until her parents come home at 8pm. My problem is he doesn't take her calls around me, doesn't answer my calls or texts while at her house. Eats, buys dinner, showers, gets dressed in work uniform and goes to work from there which I disagree. I think he is cheating with her.. Any advice..?