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Synnen · May 20, 2011, 11:43 AM

Age is just a number, huh?

So you'd be okay with having sex with an 80 year old? How about a 4 year old? Age is just a number, after all!

You are in a BAD relationship if you know he'd ruin your reputation if you told him you caught an STD from him.

Congratulations! You're an idiot who is staying with someone abusive.

You're so smart that I hope you don't tell him, you reinfect yourself, and it causes infertility for the both of you so that NEITHER of you can pass on your idiotic genes.

Do you WANT to never be able to have children? That's what will happen if you stay with him and you are not BOTH treated.

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 11:46 AM

Don't you think he should know what he's carrying around and giving to girls? And he's true to you, of course, and wouldn't think of sleeping around.

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 11:47 AM

I am mature. I wouldn't do something like that. Its him. And to be honest here why the f*** you trying to say I'm immature or even trying to justify yourself with my maturaty. You don't know me this website is for help. I asked a complete different question, was my question ' I am mature'?
No it wasn't. What you tryying to do here? Getting some weird enjoyment on pissying of a 15 year old girl. And I'm not a child I'm a adolescent and in a few days classed as a adult. I am very very mature I work in a care home already as a support worker for old people.
But back to the point if you have no friendly, supportive advice could you just leave my question please. Thanks.

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 11:49 AM

You are underage, you are being sexually abused, and you got an STD from a guy whom you are so afraid of that you dare not tell him what he did to you.

What did I miss?

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 11:50 AM

I am not stupid I'm getting myself treated tomorrow morning at brook clinic when I get back to his house I am going to sit down and tell him. I wouldn't have sex with him if I've treated myself and he hasn't? Yes I would like children thanks. I'm not in a bad relationship its just boys for you can't you lot remember back when you was young because I'm pretty sure you'd be in the same boat okay. Unless your all elderly and can't remember back then.

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 11:52 AM

That he cares for me. I don't want to tell him because I don't want to lose him and yeah I have my uncle with me now and he is 45 he has even said that if it was him and girl saying she had it he wouldn't be understanding I need boy advice you girls just don't understand what goes threw the brain of a boy. Sorry but my dad is a phychologist and he would know

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 11:52 AM

I would never have dated a guy like that -- and I didn't. I dated guys who respected me and cared about my welfare (and their own) and who wouldn't trash my name.

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 11:54 AM

Well how old are you then because you obviously haven't lived in my generation grama or have any children from places we are from.

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 11:56 AM

Originally Posted by EllaOneill

my dad is a phychologist and he would know

I also know, am a professional counselor, and know what goes through (not "threw") a guy's mind.

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 11:58 AM

Well then stop acting like I'm not right? When I know I am a teenage boy that acts younger and more immature than he should wouldn't be like that even if he thought he was a bad kid. And I'm a younger I like to right in slang thanks

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 11:59 AM

Originally Posted by EllaOneill

well how old are you then because you obviously havent lived in my generation grama or have any children from places we are from.

I am not a grandmother, and I have experience you can only dream of.

Now, back to your question. Have we sufficiently answered it, or do you have any others?

Synnen · May 20, 2011, 12:01 PM

Oh, because we've NEVER had relationships with boys, so we don't understand?

I was in a relationship a LOT like the one you're in now when I was your age. The BEST thing I ever did was get out of that relationship.

Whatever, though. You want to hear what you want to hear, and not what we have to tell you. You want advice that fits what you already think you should do, not advice on what's actually best for you.

You're dating a guy that had sex with an underage girl after less than a month of dating, and you're more worried about KEEPING him than you are about the fact that he put your health at risk?

Yeah, that sounds REAL mature. It's soooooooo mature to care more about whether a boy is going to leave than you care about the fact that he gave you a disease that can make you sterile.

Good job.

Glad I'm not going to have to worry about your intelligence and maturity reproducing.

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 12:01 PM

Originally Posted by EllaOneill

well then stop acting like im not right? when i know i am a teenage boy that acts younger and more immature than he should wouldnt be like that even if he thought he was a bad kid. and im a younger i like to right in slang thanks

Huh? That makes no sense. I'm guessing it's your poor spelling. And no, you're not correct in how you are thinking.

JudyKayTee · May 20, 2011, 12:02 PM

"my dad is a phychologist"

Well, if he is I hope HE can spell it. I'm surprised that your Uncle is okay with child abuse.

I am also amazed that "Brooks" hasn't reported your boyfriend.

WG, the part you missed is where the boyfriend used to have sex with her girlfriend.

Nice that he's limiting himself to one social circle, though.

And, yes, it is good news that this STD will keep both OP and her boyfriend from populating the World.

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 12:03 PM

Well then stop being rude to me I wouldn't be rude back. Give me respect ill give you respect just because you're an adult it doesn't mean you can treat me any different to anyone else because I'm a child. And nope that's all thanks

JudyKayTee · May 20, 2011, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by EllaOneill

well then stop being rude to me i wouldnt be rude back. give me respect ill give you respect just because your an adult it doesn't mean you can treat me any different to anyone else because im a child. and nope thats all thanks

Good news - you admit you're a child, acting like a child, thinking like a child.

You earn respect. It's not a given. Earn respect and it'll be given to you.

I think this thread is done - anyone care to close it?

And, poof, "that's all" and she's gone.

(Wonder what her lifetime plan is? Abusive boyfriend followed by abusive boyfriend? At least the STD very possibly rules out "unwed mother.")

Wondergirl · May 20, 2011, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by EllaOneill

well then stop being rude to me

Ummm, I was nice until I got slapped.

I'm a child.

Please make sure that 18 y/o guy knows that.

JudyKayTee · May 20, 2011, 12:09 PM

News flash - she KNOWS he's playing her. She's "addicted" (her words) to him. She's giving other people advice. Here's a totally different story - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post2805074.

Troll? Attention getter? Something else?

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 12:09 PM

Originally Posted by Synnen

Oh, because we've NEVER had relationships with boys, so we don't understand?

I was in a relationship a LOT like the one you're in now when I was your age. The BEST thing I ever did was get out of that relationship.

Whatever, though. You want to hear what you want to hear, and not what we have to tell you. You want advice that fits what you already think you should do, not advice on what's actually best for you.

You're dating a guy that had sex with an underage girl after less than a month of dating, and you're more worried about KEEPING him than you are about the fact that he put your health at risk?

Yeah, that sounds REAL mature. It's soooooooo mature to care more about whether a boy is going to leave than you care about the fact that he gave you a disease that can make you sterile.

Good job.

Glad I'm not going to have to worry about your intelligence and maturity reproducing.

Not being funny but I have just said I'm getting myself treated tomorrow morning so I am worrying more about my health but the same time not up for losing my boyfiend but going to find it hard to tell him so you don't know nothing so go away

EllaOneill · May 20, 2011, 12:13 PM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

News flash - she KNOWS he's playing her. She's "addicted" (her words) to him. She's giving other people advice. Here's a totally different story - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post2805074.

Troll? Attention getter? Something else?

I am not a attention getter and not being funny this isn't even about my boyfriend that advice, its about a different boy. This is my first relationship since omg if ALL off you lot knew what it is like to be me you would know why I'm with my boyfriend and stuff okay.