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    erinjacobs Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 6, 2011, 01:32 PM
    Who is more likely to be the father? Pre ejaculate or full ejaculation?
    I recently had sex with another guy when I was with my boyfriend. Now my boyfriend cums in me all the time however he has some drug issues. Now the other guy I had sex with didn't come in me he pulled out. I just found out I'm pregnant and don't know who the father is and I'm with my boyfriend who thinks it is his... I personally believe its his because he always cums in me but he also has some drug issues like I said... so if anybody has some insight that would be great...
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    Jan 6, 2011, 01:40 PM
    Drug use doesn't stop male fertility. Only a DNA test after the birth will tell you for sure... although you could always wait and see if the baby looks like one man more than the other. Good luck with everything.
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    Jan 6, 2011, 01:47 PM

    Um... how old are you? A required number I am sorry to say.
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    Jan 6, 2011, 01:55 PM

    MOved from Adult Sexuality.

    You will have NO idea whose baby it is until AFTER the child is born and you have a DNA test done.

    Try birth control in the future.
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    Jan 6, 2011, 02:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by erinjacobs View Post
    i recently had sex with another guy when i was with my boyfriend. now my boyfriend cums in me all the time however he has some drug issues. now the other guy i had sex with didnt come in me he pulled out. i just found out im pregnant and dont know who the father is and im with my boyfriend who thinks it is his... i personally beleive its his because he always cums in me but he also has some drug issues like i said ...so if n e body has some insight that would be great...
    Drugs can indeed play a role in fertility due to the potential effect on male hormones, sperm, and semen in several ways. Is it enough to be an issue for your boyfriend? Maybe, maybe not. Plenty of people who use drugs have babies.

    If you are looking for odds... odds are the baby is your boyfriend's simply because of the greater number of encounters with him and that the other man did not actually ejaculate.

    However, it is not a guaranteed conclusion. As was said, unless you had a far enough gap between sex with the two of them, which it doesn't sound as though that was the situation, the only way you are going to know for sure would be to have DNA testing done after baby is born.

    For the baby's sake, I hope you encourage your boyfriend to get clean and that you are making any lifestyle changes that you know would be healthy if they pertain to you... for example, avoid being around cigarette smoke, no alcohol, healthy food choices, a daily prenatal vitamin, etc.
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