[tinkerbell575]

What can I say? My boyfriend of nearky 2 years decided to tell me he thinks I am not so attractive and not so gorgeous but I feel so crap.. what do I say??

[kctiger]

Tell him good luck finding another girlfriend after you dump him on his butt! No man should tell ANY female that, nor should any female accept it. You deserve better, period. I hardly doubt he is in any sort of position to say such a seriously degrading and hurtful comment.

[answerme_tender]

He is nothing more then a loser. He is someone who gets off on making others feel bad about themselves then he has more control over the relationship. He wants you to feel so low that you will do anything for him!!

Nows its time to prove not only to yourself but to everyone that you KNOW what a great person you are and that if you didn't have personality and great looks he wouldn't feel so threaten in the first place!!
DUMP HIM and get out and find a real young man that will treat you the way a young LADY deserves!!

[Enigma1999]

what can i say?? my boyfriend of nearky 2 years decided to tell me he thinks i am not so attractive and not so gorgeous but i feel so crap..what do i say???

You don't say anything... You leave him! Period.

[I wish]

Show him where the nearest exit is and tell him not to come back.

[DoulaLC]

You say, good-bye. Let him know that since you apparently are no longer what he is looking for, you will let him move on. Then do the same.

There is no coming back from it. It will always be in the back of your mind. Certainly people will be with someone because they enjoy their company, like their personality, love them, etc.. And certainly people will notice others who are very attractive, often even more physically attractive than the person they are with, but it doesn't mean they would want to be with someone else. However, knowing that and having your partner actually tell you it are two very different things.

[chuff]

Your boyfriend spent 2 years with someone he didn't find attractive? Doesn't that make him stupid?