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lollymimz · Sep 29, 2010, 03:55 PM

Okay so there's this guy that I kind of can't stop thinking about. I was thinking about asking him out but then that day he asked out a really pretty girl which made me mad because I can't compete with her, anyway she said no and it was such a relive! Then the next day... HE ASKED OUT MY BFF! She said yea and I almost cussed her out! We are really good friends but sometimes it seems like he's flirting with me. WHAT DO U DO!? Should we just stay friends or what! *** help
Thanks
lollymimz<3

Enigma1999 · Sep 29, 2010, 05:04 PM

Hello Lolly,

Did your BFF know you liked him?

anzalpe · Sep 29, 2010, 10:48 PM

My best friends is dating my ex. Is almost kind the same case as you. I am so hurt because of my best friends lies and everything. So I think you should tell her first and ask her if she really likes him because if its you should let them be together if not, ask her if she could try to back off a little and give you a chance to ask him out. Good luck:)

Devorameira · Sep 30, 2010, 05:19 AM

Did your BFF know you liked him? If she did, I think I'd get rid of her because it seems like she's undermining you.

Just stay friends with the fellow and maybe someday he'll realize what a great girl you are. Be patient!

beachloverjohn · Sep 30, 2010, 08:22 AM

Is BFF mean best friend? What does second F mean? Best female friend? Well no matter.

This boy you like is not as interested in you {maybe not at all} so he asks others out before you. So you are down on the list.

He asks your friend out but for her to be a good friend she should say no? Well I don't agree with that. On the flip side of the coin, you can be a good friend and wish her luck and give your blessings since he seems to like her. She didn't come between you and him, you never even went out. So stay friends, and set your sights on someone different.

Enigma1999 · Sep 30, 2010, 08:38 AM

Originally Posted by beachloverjohn

Is BFF mean best friend? What does second F mean? Best female friend? Well no matter.

This boy you like is not as interested in you {maybe not at all} so he asks others out before you. So you are down on the list.

He asks your friend out but for her to be a good friend she should say no? Well I don't agree with that. On the flip side of the coin, you can be a good friend and wish her luck and give your blessings since he seems to like her. She didn't come between you and him, you never even went out. So stay friends, and set your sights on someone different.

BFF means best friend forever.:)

beachloverjohn · Sep 30, 2010, 08:46 AM

Thanks Enigma. Well if that's what it means, then she HAS to stay friends. Otherwise she should refer to her as BFFUSDGIL. That means "Best friend forever until she dates guy I like"

lollymimz · Sep 30, 2010, 05:27 PM

Thanks so much with your help mby you are right thanks again
~lollymimz <3

lollymimz · Sep 30, 2010, 05:28 PM

She did no that I liked him I would always be staring at him when she would look at me and I would always ask her to ask him if he liked me is she just mad at me or somtin I don't know

lollymimz · Sep 30, 2010, 05:29 PM

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lollymimz · Sep 30, 2010, 05:30 PM

I feel srry for you at least your not dating him now and he's cheating on u

lollymimz · Sep 30, 2010, 05:35 PM

OKAY so there is the guy I asked out in like what fourth grade and now he's crawling back to meh. OMG like today I sat down to watch a geomentry movie thingy and he got up and sat by meh and I was like what da crp and so I got up and sat on the mini blechers then five minuets later he came bak and sat by meh. I got up and sat on the floor and that was it. I now have an issue with him were I do NOT want to be by him like if I had to pik between the worst lozer in the school or him it would so be the lozer! I can't take him. It makes me so freakin mad. HELP MEH! Should I ask him out AGAIN or should I just wait or give him a chance! *** help meh
Thanks
~lollymimz <3

anzalpe · Sep 30, 2010, 05:45 PM

Okk I'm trying to understand hahaha, so you don't like him anymore? Its obvious that he likes you very much, so if you don't like him just tell him that.
If you like him just ask him out. There's no worries about it;) good luck!

beachloverjohn · Sep 30, 2010, 06:17 PM

Lollymimz, I didn't understand your comment that you left on my post, but one thing I do know. Friends should care about each other and will outlast boy/girlfriends, so my advice is don't let this boy or any boy for that matter come between you and your BFF.

Enigma1999 · Sep 30, 2010, 06:40 PM

Originally Posted by beachloverjohn

Lollymimz, I didn't understand your comment that you left on my post, but one thing I do know. Friends should care about each other and will outlast boy/girlfriends, so my advice is don't let this boy or any boy for that matter come between you and your BFF.

I agree. Had to spread the rep.

I think Lolly should really think about if she wants a person like that to be friends with, knowing that she (Lolly) liked him.

That is below the belt as far as I'm concerned.

Devorameira · Oct 1, 2010, 06:17 AM

You say you'd pick the loser over him, so why would you even consider asking him out?

Don't give in to someone you're not interested in. Just tell him you're not interested anymore.

Just curious - how old are you now?

lollymimz · Oct 3, 2010, 10:58 AM

I don't know I just really liked him and we had so much in common like playing the piano ps I'm about to turn 14