Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    loveless044's Avatar
    loveless044 Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #1

    Aug 15, 2010, 08:45 AM
    Should I just use the condoms??
    Okay I'm a bit clueless here but here goes...

    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. We've had sex several times. About once a week actually (we're 17 by the way)... and he is always trying to tell me that we should use condoms because he doesn't want me to end up pregnant. I have one more year in high school and he has two. Neither of us need to be rocking a baby this soon.

    But anyway... the reason I don't like using condoms is because they seem to irritate me. They give me an itchy burning feeling that is just unpleasant and ruins the sex. Sometimes he'll sneak off to the bathroom while I'm in bed and he'll slip one one but as soon as he puts it in, I can tell because, like I said, it irritates me. So I just pull it off and we finish without it.

    He always pulls out in time enough not to *** inside of me but the last time we had sex (last week) he said he may have did it in me just a little. I'm not too nervous about becoming pregnant because I know it'd be our faults so whatever but if I got lucky this time by not becoming pregnant then I want to prevent it best I can next time...

    First thing comes to mind is birth control, right. Well here's the spin on that. I can't take birth control. Not the pill, nor the Depo. Shot. Why? I was diagnosed with severe migrain headaches back in last year. They will not allow me to get on either of those types of birth control because it will only make my headaches worse... I know they have implants but they recommend those for women who have already had a baby... I really really hate condoms, and I don't want to give up sex... so what do I do?
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #2

    Aug 15, 2010, 08:52 AM

    You consult with a Physician and determine what means are appropriate and what will work for you. What is recommended to the general public and what is recommended for you may very well be two different things.

    Pre-come DOES contain sperm so the pulling out "method" is far from effective.

    You're both a high school student AND a hospital receptionist?
    loveless044's Avatar
    loveless044 Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #3

    Aug 15, 2010, 09:19 AM

    Yes I am a high school student and a hospital receptionist
    loveless044's Avatar
    loveless044 Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #4

    Aug 15, 2010, 09:20 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    You're both a high school student AND a hospital receptionist?
    Yes I am
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #5

    Aug 15, 2010, 09:20 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by loveless044 View Post
    yes i am a high school student and a hospital receptionist

    Most impressive - honestly.
    loveless044's Avatar
    loveless044 Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
    Junior Member
    		  
    #6

    Aug 15, 2010, 09:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Most impressive - honestly.
    Thanks. I was surprised at first too. And thanks for the advice.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Condoms [ 7 Answers ]

If u have never used a condom before how do u know what size or type is better for u?

How can I tell if my b/f using condoms? [ 6 Answers ]

How can I tell my boyfriend is using a condom with someone else ? We do not use any protection. I had a hysterectomy.

Condoms? Or . [ 6 Answers ]

Hello everyone. I need some advice.. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for 2 years and when we have sex we use condoms sometimes.. We have had unprotected sex but he pulls it out right before he cums is that OK to do or just use condoms?. I'm 18 by the way.

Getting condoms. [ 10 Answers ]

I'm stumped on how I can obtain a condom without raising suspicion... I know stealing is wrong and buying one would be too awkward... is there a way I can get one just for the sake of having one "just in case" without having to buy or steal one?

View more questions Search