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icequeen88 · Jun 17, 2010, 08:18 AM

Why do some guys give their first true relationship girlfriend a hard time (good female), then pick a fight so they can cheat (and possibly leave her) for a female that is much lower than her.
And what I mean by that, I mean females that are younger than him by 4 to 6 years, wild, drink a lot, have sex, and use profanity.. but if their ex would have did one of those, they would have thrown a fit.

What type of guys are they? I don't get it. Especially if their ex was educated, beautiful,. basically everything a guy could want but she just didn't tolerate when they tried to walk over her.

I wish · Jun 17, 2010, 08:26 AM

A better question would be, why do you associate yourself with these types of guys? They are who they are, why don't you meet some nice guys?

icequeen88 · Jun 17, 2010, 10:49 AM

The tricky part is that, some females don't know they dealing with those types until the downfall/heartbreak comes. If they knew from the beginning, they would definitely avoid them. Those guys are so undercover my goodness it doesn't make any sense.

I wish · Jun 17, 2010, 11:23 AM

Once you find out the truth, cut your ties and meet someone else.

The longer you dwell and stick around with these types of the guys, the more you suffer.

talaniman · Jun 18, 2010, 05:09 PM

Make better choices in guys for yourself.

Talaniman Rule- Don't play games with your heart, and don't let somebody else play games with it either.

Talaniman Rule - Never tolerate bad behavior. *

Talaniman Rule- never be in a hurry to give your heart to a stranger. Wait until they have proven they deserve it, and know what to do with it.

Talaniman Rule- Doesn't matter how intense the feelings, or how much fun you have, never give your heart to someone you don't know well, and thats only after the lust has worn off for you both.

friend4u178 · Jun 18, 2010, 05:51 PM

It's pointless trying to figure out why some guys are like this (there are women like this too BTW) , if you happen to have been lucky enough to escape one , count your lucky stars and learn to read the signs in the future ;)

Homegirl 50 · Jun 18, 2010, 06:26 PM

Some guys just like to have a nice girl to say they are dating and then they mess around with Ms.Tacky. There are women who do the same.
Just be thankful he's gone. Don't worry about the why. You can't change them anyway.

positiveparent · Jun 18, 2010, 08:41 PM

Just as there are different breeds of dogs there are different types of male personalities, if you wanted a pedigree dog you wouldn't go looking for a mongrel same applies with the men you look for or attract.

You wouldn't go out for a macdonalds if you have fillet steak at home...

Kitkat22 · Jun 18, 2010, 09:57 PM

Originally Posted by positiveparent

Just as there are different breeds of dogs there are different types of male personalities, if you wanted a pedigree dog you wouldnt go looking for a mongrel same applies with the men you look for or attract.

You wouldnt go out for a macdonalds if you have fillet steak at home...

Some guys don't feel real secure in themselves. If they are with a nice, sweet educated woman who has class, they may feel inferior although they don't show it. I think maybe they find someone they feel is beneath them to make themselves feel better. Just an opinion.

realzero · Sep 26, 2010, 12:56 PM

I agree with kitkat22. Just keep in mind that it very likely doesn't have anything to do with you. It's a mental issue on his part.

There are other variables to consider of course. A "better" person in one person's mind can be anything but in another's. So whereas the more successful person is more likely to be content and have a good life, this does not nessiaarily mean he/she will be more attractive than a "loser" for a variety of reasons. Again, its his mental issue. Unless you are comfortable with him sleeping around it just not meant to be.