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    sweetgirl18 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 15, 2010, 04:09 AM
    I want him in my life.
    I had a relationship with my best friend fr 3 months.. n we had a break off after that.. and the main problem is that he is not ready to give a reason for break off. I just can't find out the reason.. I want him in my life but he is not ready even to talk to me.. please help me.
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    Jun 15, 2010, 06:17 AM

    Try talking to him and find out what he feels
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    Jun 15, 2010, 06:57 AM

    Let him come to you. Don't date a best friend... it sometimes ruins the friendship. I hope you can at least remain friends... Kit
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    Jun 15, 2010, 07:22 AM

    If he wants to talk to you, he will find a way. If he's ignoring you, then take the hint. He wants to be left alone.

    I understand that it's easier said that done. Sometimes, it's really difficult to accept that someone does not want to be part of our lives. Who knows what will happen in the future. Maybe one day you will talk again, but until then, don't force the issue. Forcing him to talk to you will only push him away further.
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    Jun 15, 2010, 09:57 AM

    You can't force a person to talk to you and bugging them will only push them away.
    When and if he is ready to talk to you he will.
    In the meantime pick up the pieces and move on. Dwelling in the past gets you nowhere.
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    Jun 15, 2010, 11:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You can't force a person to talk to you and bugging them will only push them away.
    When and if he is ready to talk to you he will.
    In the meantime pick up the pieces and move on. Dwelling in the past gets you nowhere.


    Move on!
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    Jun 15, 2010, 11:27 AM

    I'm going to throw this out there and make a guess what his reason is,

    He does not want a romantic relationship with you,it did not work for him and he is trying to find the courage to tell you.

    You could let him off the hook,and just move on,or you could continue trying to find out and wreak both your heads.

    Give yourself a break,it did not work out,breakups suck,don't make it worse for yourself by searching for a reason.
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    Jun 15, 2010, 11:46 AM

    Nobody likes someone who is clingy in a relationship.
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    Jun 16, 2010, 04:45 AM

    Thanks to all for your opinions. Even I am trying to move on. But it becomes difficult for me to face him. Anyway moving on is the better option. So I will keep trying.
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    Jun 16, 2010, 09:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by sweetgirl18 View Post
    thanks to all for your opinions. Even i am trying to move on. but it becomes difficult for me to face him. anyways moving on is the better option. so i will keep trying.




    Good for you... We're here if you need us... Kit
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    Jun 26, 2010, 07:16 PM

    Well... I was in a relationship too and we broke up I wantd him back in my life but he wouldn tlk to so I left it alone then eventually he came around to text me now we text evryday... so just wait till he comes to you he'll realize he misses you
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    Jun 26, 2010, 07:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nks123 View Post
    well...i was in a relationship too and we broke up i wantd him back in my life but he wouldn tlk to so i left it alone then eventually he came around to txt me now we txt evryday......so just wait till he comes to yu he'll realize he misses yu
    Nks... please do not use chat/text speak in your responses. Glad to have you here.
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