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    #81

    Apr 26, 2010, 07:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    The court case should be public record. Try finding her name by looking up the Company's name in lawsuits.
    Agreed: virtual greenie :D
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    #82

    Apr 26, 2010, 08:40 PM

    I haven't read back but big hugs to you Bella (((((((hugs))))))))

    You say you aren't asking people to tell you how wonderful you are but Bella... you ARE!
    You have become a good friend of mine over the past few months and I think you give excellent and caring advice.
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    #83

    Apr 27, 2010, 04:20 AM

    Thanks Shaz, that really means a lot!

    I also feel that you have become a good friend to me, and your advice, well, it's just awesome.

    I really appreciate you all being here letting me vent, and talking me through this.
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    #84

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:32 PM

    Ok so quick update. I quit my job. Yup I did it today. Well this is what happened. I went to my doctor on the 28th and he wrote me off for 8 weeks which would have taken me to the end of my term anyway.

    I went into give it to one of my bosses and she said that she could make things easier on me and handed me a letter that said they were ending my term early. Seems that she already knew I was planning on leaving beforehand. She said she knew I was having a hard time with some of the staff, and they decided to pay me until the end of May, as well as continue my benefits. I wonder if this was to avoid another potential law suit for harassment.

    It was something that I though about, but I wasn't planning on going through with it. This way works for me too, as I will still qualify for Employment Insurance.

    So I did need to get some revenge of some sort, so I printed every nasty e mail that was sent to me by the girls, as well as a few nasy e mails that were sent to me by clients thinking they were sending them to one of the girls, just happens to be the one I had the most problems with. I left a copy on my bosses printer as well as forwarded a copy to the national office which happens to be the head of our H.R. department.

    Oh well the deed is done. I will be going back to school full time in September.

    I feel so relieved. It was my mental well being, and it was something that just needed to be done. I am happy and confident with my decision.
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    #85

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:37 PM

    Let me be the first to congratulate you! And it sounds like you have all your ducks in a row with money and a new career. We will be here for you no matter what, don't forget!
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    #86

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:42 PM

    Thanks Wondergirl. I am really lucky to have found you guys! :)

    I'll keep you all posted, and you better know I'll be needing your help writing those papers for school.
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    #87

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:47 PM

    Good for you bella, I hope those girls get what's coming to them, and in a big way that will knock them flat :)

    Do you think you'll be contacted by your boss or the head office in regars to the email printoffs you gave them?
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    #88

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:50 PM

    Bella... I just wanted to tell you I love you and I'm glad you're better. Thank you for being such a good friend. Good Luck with School. HUGS
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    #89

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:52 PM

    I really couldn't even guess. If anyone I will be contacted by National. I think my boss would have just thrown them out.

    I don't care either way, I just wanted to prove that I wasn't being paranoid about their actions.

    Funny thing was, on Tuesday, I was going for lunch and those girls were already in the elevator, and they were holding the door until I was about 3 feet away, than they decided they would let the door close in my face, laughing the whole time.

    I knew that was the final straw. That and I found those files in the wrong spot again.
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    #90

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:53 PM

    Hey! Thanks Kit. Glad to see you back.
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    #91

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    I'll be needing your help writing those papers for school.
    I've got my purple pen all ready to go! Can't wait!
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    #92

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:57 PM

    Well bella, its over now, they're the companies problem now and they can go and f**k themselves. They are the worst type of people.

    I really hope the head office does something about this
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    #93

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:57 PM
    Bella, I am so proud of you. I hope you do follow through with the home office aspect, if for no other reason than to try to keep what happened to you from happening to someone else.

    That gives you the summer to check into alternative learning methods. Hands on training with your friend, maybe? :)
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    #94

    Apr 29, 2010, 06:59 PM

    Oh hey this also frees you up to try and find a good therapist :) - I mean that in the best possible way :)
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    Apr 29, 2010, 07:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Hey! Thanks Kit. Glad to see you back.
    I'm not really back... trying to wean myself a little at a time. It's like trying to quit smoking . But in a week or so maybe I'll be able to stay away. I'm glad you are happier. I only come back for a few minutes a day and sometimes two or three times a day to see my pm. I'm doing better! You go get them girl.
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    #96

    Apr 29, 2010, 07:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by albear View Post
    oh hey this also frees you up to try and find a good therapist :) - i mean that in the best possible way :)

    Lol yes it does.

    Thanks guys, I really do feel great about this decision.

    Kitty, you got to do what's right for you.

    Thanks guys! :)
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    #97

    Apr 29, 2010, 07:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    I'm not really back...trying to wean myself a little at a time. It's like trying to quit smoking.
    I've tried to stay away. I can't. How are you managing it? Maybe if I adopt four of hheath's kittens, I will have other things to occupy my mind...
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    #98

    Apr 29, 2010, 07:10 PM

    Ha ha. Wg, you know you can't stay away. I know I sure can't. It's funny eh?
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    #99

    Apr 29, 2010, 07:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell View Post
    Thanks guys, I really do feel great about this decision.
    I am feeling soooooo good about how things are working out for you!
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    #100

    Apr 29, 2010, 07:14 PM

    Well I have you guys to thank.

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