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Apr 14, 2010, 02:45 PM
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Man B is her best friend for nine years. NINE YEARS.
Where has it gone, NO WHERE.
Man A, has proven he is willing to take chances and make moves to develop the relationship.
Man B, which is supposedly the best friend threatens never to be her friend after she goes to man A, but yet she has never been with Man B in the first place. THEY are JUST friends.
PERSONALLY,
Man A, could be a chance in a life time and I think she should go for it. I honestly feel it could work. Why not... It has not worked with man b, and he is just supposed to be a friend anyway.
I say good ridden to man B. Especially if he thinks throwing a way 9 years of so called friendship because she is going to try to make it work with Man A.
Man B has not been waiting around for her anyway, because man b is just her friend and nothing more.
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Apr 14, 2010, 04:13 PM
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I'm with Joe on this one.
In my opinion she has 2 men that she has feelings for , nothing wrong with that because you can't control the way you feel about someone. At least she was honest with both of them and let them know about each other and not go behind their backs.
As Joe said Man B is a FRIEND , and has had plenty of time (9 years) to pursue a Relationship with her , to now say he will not be her friend anymore if she chooses Man A is childish if you ask me and reeks of manipulation.
Man A has shown his hand , and has committed himself to being with her and is even willing to move cities to be with her , that shows too me that he at least has the gumption to give it a shot , and is willing to make a great sacrifice to do so.
Will it last , I don't know , but neither will she if she doesn't give it a go.
Plus he makes her toes curl ;)
That's my take on it anyway :cool:
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Apr 14, 2010, 04:40 PM
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 Originally Posted by friend4u178
I'm with Joe on this one.
In my opinion she has 2 men that she has feelings for , nothing wrong with that because you can't control the way you feel about someone. At least she was honest with both of them and let them know about each other and not go behind their backs.
As Joe said Man B is a FRIEND , and has had plenty of time (9 years) to pursue a Relationship with her , to now say he will not be her friend anymore if she chooses Man A is childish if you ask me and reeks of manipulation.
Man A has shown his hand , and has committed himself to being with her and is even willing to move cities to be with her , that shows too me that he at least has the gumption to give it a shot , and is willing to make a great sacrifice to do so.
Plus he makes her toes curl ;)
Thats my take on it anyway :cool:
Okay I will agree on the toe curling.. my husband still makes my heart skip a beat when he walks in the room.
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