[starcrush]

Ok I already reported this to my mother she is not doing anything. My sister's boyfriend comes over and stay here at my house over 12 hrs a day . Im responsible for cleaning the dishes. He keeps messing them up and I have to clean them up. How can this be stopped. We already trying talking to him and my sister which is just totally not even worth it. Because she attacks us everythime. What should I do ? Thanks

[jmjoseph]

Get some paper plates for him to use. Then make him pay for them. How about a dollar each?

[starcrush]

We already tried that. All they do is used them all up on purpose. Im almost to the point wear I want to get violent with these people.

[jmjoseph]

It sounds like he needs a dog bowl.

[starcrush]

Yeah he does. I am fed up with it.

[Big Auntie]

How about if you stop doing the dishes that he uses? Do everything else you would do if he wasn't there, then stop. Perhaps if your Mom and sister see the mess he makes, they will say something and it will help to back up your point.

If you run out of clean dishes to use, and he complains, tell them to wash them himself.

[cdad]

Ok i already reported this to my mother she is not doing anything. My sister's bf comes over and stay here at my house over 12 hrs a day . Im responsible for cleaning the dishes. He keeps messing them up and I have to clean them up. How can this be stopped. We already trying talking to him and my sister which is just totally not even worth it. Because she attacks us everythime. What should i do ? Thanks

Are you all in the same house? If he wants something that uses a dish then be sure not to wash the ones he's using and serve him on them. When he sees they are dirty and complains then that's the time to speak up.