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    Mar 24, 2010, 06:33 AM
    I had a fight with my girlfriend, and she asked me to leave her alone
    I had a fight with my girlfrnd and she asked me to leave her alone for a while and also she asked me to not to call her until she calls me. What do I need to do in this case ?
    Will she come back to me?
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    Mar 24, 2010, 06:40 AM

    We can't tell you whether she'll come back or not,

    All you can do leave her alone and go about your own business.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 06:51 AM

    You need to respect her wishes. She's told you to leave her alone and not to call, so respect that and go NC.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:26 AM
    Dear friend thanks for your reply..

    I can leave her alone, but often I feel to speak to her and also I want to hear her voice, I can be like this, I am hurting myself... I dono what do do,
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:34 AM

    I want her in my life for ever, I love her so much... I can't be live without her, I feel alone now...
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:36 AM

    We have told you what to do, leave her alone! If you can't let her cool off, and see how she feels when she stops being mad at you, you will show a weakness, and disrespect to her, that she will despise in you, and that will make things worse.

    Don't tell me you can't be a man and find something else to do besides cry in a corner, and want your mommy back? How old are you any way?
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:39 AM

    I am 26,
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:41 AM

    Respect her wishes and leave her alone or don't be surprised if cops show up at your door with a restraining order
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:44 AM

    Keep your mind distracted by going out do something. Keep yourself busy, workout is a good idea. Sit at home and think about it won't help.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:46 AM

    Dear friends,

    I really respect your answers, as per all of your wishes I ll leave her alone until she call me, am I rite..
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    Mar 24, 2010, 07:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rrakesh85 View Post
    Dear frnds,

    i really respect ur answers, as per all of ur wishes i ll leave her alone untill she call me, am i rite..

    Not per our wish but per your girlfriend wish. Go and find something to do to keep your mind off her "An Idle Mind Is The Devil's Workshop"
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    Mar 24, 2010, 08:01 AM

    Yup I am going to divert myself
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    Mar 24, 2010, 08:08 AM

    I know it's tough, but you've made the right decision to go NC. It WILL get easier with time.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 08:13 AM

    I have to friends,
    Friends ours is pretty diff love story, we never meet face to face we both are from diff country meet in chat and had a phone calls, we liked each other.. we used to speak more than ten times a day, but now not even one time, I feel like I fall in dark, I love her a lot, I trust and respect our love,
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    Mar 24, 2010, 08:24 AM

    Time to go out and meet some local people-see friends and family.

    Get busy-do things you enjoy.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 08:27 AM

    Are you broken up? Or is she just extremely pissed at you?

    If you're not broken up, and she hasn't said anything towards that direction, just let her cool off and think about whatever it is that you did. If she loves you, she'll forgive you on her own terms and start talking to you again.

    She'll come around.. Don't worry
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    Mar 24, 2010, 09:25 AM

    Sure I ll wait for her no matter how long it going to be, also I feel she ll realize my love and she will come back..
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    Mar 24, 2010, 09:31 AM

    Dude, get a real relationship with a real person, why dontcha?
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    Mar 24, 2010, 10:20 AM

    You she is real, I ll wait for her, going to let her free for a while until she realize my love and affection.
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    Mar 24, 2010, 10:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rrakesh85 View Post
    i have to frnds,
    friends ours is pretty diff love story, we never meet face to face we both are from diff country meet in chat and had a phone calls, we liked each other.. we used to speak more than ten times a day, but now not even one time, i feel like i fall in dark, i love her a lot, i trust and respect our love,
    You didn't fall in love. You became infatutated. No offense friend, get a life. Get off your butt and go out and meet an actual woman. Hold her hand. Look into her eyes. I think you'll find the WHOLE situation A LOT more stimulating than your current date of a mouse and monitor.
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