[T3hwhattodo]

Well... lets start from the beginning...

Me and this boy (ofcourse, what else would it be about?) hmm I can't say that we we're really good friends, we normally go out with a group of friends on a Friday like most teenagers do. Well we missed the bus home and walked back, but I had to walk milleess so I stayed around his. We had a brilliant conversation and opened up our feelings because I know he used to like me but now when I think I have, no I know I have feelings for him, he's just being blunt and cold. So I've stayed at his house, haven't done anything, just kissed and talked a lot. It was lovely ;) But afterwards when we got back to school people found out and it just went downnhill. So since then haven't had a normal conversation with him and I'm thinking, just give up... But I know I'm an attractive and determinded person so why should I give up if someone's so flipping scared of comitment. Its not hard, he could at least have given me a shot. But I think he doesn't speak to me atm because of people at school, and when I ask people say its not me and I should just forget. But now this really attractive girl likes him and its like te. I think he would prefer her over me.. great confidence boost.
Im thinking, if I can't even talk to him then what's the point. But it just seems to be like al lthe boys I know are like this. Is it me?

[ohsohappy]

First thing I will say to you, is that there are abbreviations in there that nobody will be able to understand. Rephrase some of the things you say and it will be easier to answer your question. Also, try to punctuate properly. WE can't answer these questions at our best if we don't understand the whole story you're trying to write.

Also, How old are you?

[T3hwhattodo]

First thing I will say to you, is that there are abbreviations in there that nobody will be able to understand. Rephrase some of the things you say and it will be easier to answer your question. Also, try to punctuate properly. WE can't answer these questions at our best if we don't understand the whole story you're trying to write.

Also, How old are you?

Ah sorry, too much effort, I think you get the point. :) And 15, why?

[ohsohappy]

Ah sorry, too much effort, i think you get the point. :) And 15, why?

Because knowing how old you are helps gauge how to answer the question. I wouldn't answer a question like this from a 30 year old the same way I would answer it to someone your age.
That's why.

The next thing I have to say, is that if it's causing any type of drama, it's probably not worth it. If he wants to be your friend then fine, but don't try to push more than that because it is apparent that he is not ready for a girlfriend. Maybe he feels guilty for leading you on, or maybe he likes someone else. There's no way to really tell unless you talk to him.

[T3hwhattodo]

Because knowing how old you are helps gauge how to answer the question. I wouldn't answer a question like this from a 30 year old the same way i would answer it to someone your age.
That's why.

The next thing I have to say, is that if it's causing any type of drama, it's probably not worth it. If he wants to be your friend then fine, but don't try to push more than that because it is apparant that he is not ready for a girlfriend. Maybe he feels guilty for leading you on, or maybe he likes someone else. There's no way to really tell unless you talk to him.

Hmmmm, thanks for your advice. :) ha, I feel better inside.

[ohsohappy]

Hmmmm, thanks for your advice. :) ha, i feel better inside.

Glad I could help!