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    boomer84 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 5, 2009, 06:06 PM
    No orgasm for her
    My girlfriend has never had an orgasm during sex, she had it during oral and fingering, masturbating but not through sex, id like to give her that pleasure, she says the best sex she's ever had is with me, but she can never reach an orgasm I think I can change that and I want to give her that pleasure,as she gives me. Id like to hear all your adivce.
    Thanks people
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    Nov 5, 2009, 06:30 PM
    Boomer, if you look through the other questions in this forum, you will note that this particular one is quite common.

    Some women cannot climax from penetration alone. Additional stimulation to the external genitalia is required.

    Before discussing any particular techniques, would you mind telling us your ages?
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    Nov 5, 2009, 06:59 PM
    Yes I am 25
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    Nov 6, 2009, 03:51 AM
    Sorry to have to ask, but a lot of kids come through here trying for porn that parental controls won't filter out.

    As to her climax, one method that is happy making whether it works or not is to play with her until she climaxes before you enter her. Not just foreplay, either. The largest sex organ is between a person's ears, not their legs. Joking, laughing, relaxing with each other before the excitement is just as important as which position you choose.

    As far as climax during coitus, many women say that being on top provides them more stimulation and an easier to achieve climax than guy on top positions.

    Make it all about her, so she can make it about you, and everybody's happy.
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    Nov 6, 2009, 04:09 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Catsmine View Post
    Sorry to have to ask, but a lot of kids come through here trying for porn that parental controls won't filter out.

    As to her climax, one method that is happy making whether it works or not is to play with her until she climaxes before you enter her. Not just foreplay, either. The largest sex organ is between a person's ears, not their legs. Joking, laughing, relaxing with each other before the excitement is just as important as which position you choose.

    As far as climax during coitus, many women say that being on top provides them more stimulation and an easier to achieve climax than guy on top positions.

    Make it all about her, so she can make it about you, and everybody's happy.
    I couldn't have put it any better. Right on Catsmine ! I'm one of the many like you say.
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