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    GreenEyedGirlxo Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 24, 2009, 10:37 PM
    Confused about what he wants


    Hey, so this boy I really like had a girlfriend for a long time and me and him would still hang out even though he had his girlfriend because we both really like each other. He finally broke up with her. And we hang out like every night now. I'm just confused as too what he wants. Like a relationship or eventually one? And I also find myself getting jealous because I know he is the type of guy that would cheat on his girlfriend but that was with me last time. Haha confusing I know but if anyone could give me any advice that would be greatly appreciated:D
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    Aug 24, 2009, 11:24 PM

    I would stay away, if this is a guy who is known to cheat, don't put your heart into that kind of a risk. Maybe he just wants a friends with 'benefits' relationship. Really though you need to talk to him about how he feels. And also try bringing up trust into the discussion, tell him you are not willing (that is if he is willing) to date someone who is unfaithful. Basically though if I was in your situation, I would not touch that guy with a 10 foot pole.
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    Aug 25, 2009, 05:11 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by GreenEyedGirlxo View Post

    And i also find myself getting jealous because I know he is the type of guy that would cheat on his gf but that was with me last time. haha confusing i know
    There is nothing confusing about this. Literally not one thing. It is an insult to physics, calculus, and Paris Hilton's fame that you would call this confusing. This is clear as day, he's a cheater. His cheating once and his potential cheating in the future are already making you jealous and you haven't done one thing yet. Exactly why would this be a good sitaution to get in? You already know it's not good, so don't get involved.
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    Aug 25, 2009, 05:48 AM
    You made a huge mistake to sleep with a guy who has girlfriend. Please don't do it again. You helped him to cheat his girlfriend. You will be cheated if you become his girlfriend too. Please do not waste your time and energy on this wrong guy, and find someone else who is boyfriend material.
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    Aug 25, 2009, 07:31 AM

    This is a no-brainer, stop helping him cheat, and leave him alone, because he will get someone else, and cheat on her with you, as he did before. DUH!

    He wants you available to cheat as he pleases, thats your relationship, and he has what he wants, a fool to enable him to get it on the side.

    Even if he makes you a G/F, what makes you think he won't cheat on you too? That's what cheaters do.

    That's not to confusing for you, is it??
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