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    aellimaj Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 16, 2009, 09:59 AM
    My man and stripping?
    So!. My signifciant other told me I should strip! I think that that was disrespectful! He claims... I have the body, and I might as well be naked because when I wear short shorts and low cut tops men imagine me naked. When I told him I want to be well respected he said a lot of people strip through grad school... what you think? Does he simply think of me as a sex toy?
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    Jun 16, 2009, 10:12 AM
    If you don't like his idea, don't do it, and don't take his suggestion personally.

    As to your question, you haven't provided enough info to answer it. More background please.
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    Jun 16, 2009, 10:20 AM
    While many respectable women perform at exotic dancing clubs, many others feel it beneath them.

    If it's a question of money, be aware that the big money is in the clothes-on sex called "lap dancing."

    If it's a question of safety, the dancer is usually safer on the runway than the waitress amongst the tables.

    In the final analysis, his suggestions are just that. This is your, and only your, decision.
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    Jun 16, 2009, 10:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by aellimaj View Post
    So!... My signifciant other told me I should strip! I think that that was disrespectful! He claims... i have the body, and i might as well be naked because when i wear short shorts and low cut tops men imagine me naked. When i told him i want to be well respected he said a lot of people strip through grad school... what ya'll think? Does he simply think of me as a sex toy?
    What he thinks doesn't really matter, it's your body, your choice.

    Does he view you as a sex toy? I don't know, why not ask him?
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    Jun 16, 2009, 10:37 AM

    It's your body, your choice, your decision. Just like if you had came to him and said you were going to strip. He could tell you that he doesn't want you to, but ultimately it's still your decision
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    Jun 16, 2009, 02:52 PM

    Don't do anything that you are uncomfortable with. If he can't respect your decisions, that means he can't respect you, that is when you show him to door.
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    Jun 16, 2009, 09:15 PM

    Your boyfriend might be trying to pimp you out. I wonder if he thinks by you stripping he would some how benefit from it.

    How did this conversation even come about? Was he serious or just joking?
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    Jun 16, 2009, 10:51 PM

    Well I don't know about the other guys on here but there would be NO WAY I'm letting other guys see my girls bits!!

    That's just disrespectful if you ask me.
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